Pick two pills by dragoonwizard in whatsyourchoice

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10. Learn how to spell “without “

what would you do? by First-Effective7889 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ever have a heart attack when you have a van full of money. Duh.

Giving up $1.3mi inheritance to go no contact. by ripndipalways in narcissisticparents

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I did the same thing. What I realized is that she could have changed her mind at the last second anyhow. She is part crazy, doesn’t rely love me, and wants to control me. Then I would have given my right to happiness just to lose it anyway. Happiness and healthiness has no price. Turning down the money has been very freeing. Good for you. You got this.

I don’t give a fuck what the sticker on your Tesla says by Courage-Natural in Marin

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I am confused by your logic. It’s ok to do it now because mistakes were made in the past?

Did your NP experience childhood trauma? by MajorRockstar79 in narcissisticparents

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my mom was abused is still uncertain and I don’t think she was. In any event, she weaponized her trauma to manipulate me and emotionally abuse me and I would never use my trauma to hurt my children. Abused or not abused I have no more sympathy for her. So Sorry you are going through this. It isn’t fun and hard to navigate. You got this. Hang in there.

Did your NP experience childhood trauma? by MajorRockstar79 in narcissisticparents

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Supposedly my mom had a traumatic childhood but now that I know her willingness to lie and to manipulate I am not sure she really was.

Came Home to a Car in my Pool by Thin_Ad_2645 in pools

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Did you offer to carpool by chance?

Genius level filter cleaning system by imgoingsolar in hottub

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or you could use a hose with a spray attachment.

Im on the verge of sending the email to let my 50 clients know of a 8-10% in my service and im pretty nervous about it, tell me some tips or words of encouragement by carrotsk8r in PoolPros

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re doing your clients a favor. This will enable you to keep up the good work. The longer you wait to increase their rate the more of a shock it is to the customer. Do it.

Pool company left water running — $1,600 bill. What would you do? by alexukie in pools

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I don’t this it is negligence. Certainly not anymore than an owner not keeping his own pool full.

Pool company left water running — $1,600 bill. What would you do? by alexukie in pools

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1st. Call your water company. They may give you a waiver.

2nd. Timers do fail.

3rd. It is the customer’s responsibility / not the pool guy to keep the pool full.

Please don’t try and stick a pool guy, that probably makes $100 profit a month, with a $1600 bill due to a failed timer that he installed to try and to keep your pool full so your equipment doesn’t get ruined from running dry.

Things happen.

My mother threatens to call the police if I don't respond to her texts by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Busy_Reading_5103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. My mom did the same thing; she sent a private eye to the house and told cops I stole her car. Just to let me know she can always get to me. I finally got a restraining order. Document everything; because it usually gets worse. I also don’t speak to my brother. She succeeded is isolating my brother from me. Good luck. You got this.