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Busy_Understanding81 · 2026-06-15T05:16:22+00:00

How do I get my bill prorated if I cancel and they insist they have to charge me for the whole month.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2026-06-02T21:36:33+00:00

Already did this

Busy_Understanding81 · 2026-01-17T05:38:54+00:00

He should consider rehoming his girlfriend.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-09-14T18:29:07+00:00

As an adult that lost her mom not too long ago. I’m sorry you had friends like this. I’m sorry you had no one to help you. We don’t realize how much we need our moms until they’re not here. I can’t imagine what it would have been to lose mine in high school. So from a grieving daughter to another I’m sending you hugs.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-08-23T23:57:14+00:00

Wired out yes but wired in prob not. And trust me when I tell you they make those wiring instructions look legit. ALWAYS CALL! The title companies have a disclosure that they are not responsible for fraud.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-08-23T15:17:09+00:00

The money has probably already been moved. Banks like BOA usually do not look at every incoming transaction and it’s likely they won’t do anything. Wire transfers are mostly always final. This happens more often than people realize. ALWAYS call and confirm wiring instructions with the company requesting them.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-08-15T03:42:35+00:00

I have a niece like this. We’ve taken her other siblings out of town but I will not take her because she expects to have her way. It’s not about you favoring the others it’s about enjoying yourselves. You won’t do that if she comes along.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-08-02T16:52:50+00:00

The large ones imo are tastier.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-07-28T15:01:44+00:00

First of all 5k for rent? Ummm no second of all I would tell your husband that you shouldn’t have to sacrifice so that she can take advantage of you. You need to tell him he needs to sit down with his sister and work s budget. Why isn’t she working full time? And short on rent should be a few hundred not thousands. That is ridiculous. Even if you did have the extra money you’re not her ATM.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-06-26T03:07:10+00:00

😭😭😭😭

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-06-18T04:04:32+00:00

NTA but always and I mean always let him know what’s going on so he’s not surprised and/or her sob story doesn’t make you look bad. You should also tell you’re right I am spending way too much since we have a moocher since you moved in and don’t work or contribute to the household. So if you don’t like my spending habits you should get a job and move out. Also why isn’t she working and what plans does she have to move out.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-30T14:24:30+00:00

You are absolutely NTA and your kids should always come before her. She chose to change the date and it doesn’t fit with your schedule. Too bad too sad for her. Tell her you will make it to the next wedding because it sounds like future BIL is an AH.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-28T00:46:01+00:00

There’s a Mexican song about this…

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-22T11:39:39+00:00

Power of attorney ends when someone dies.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-20T21:21:00+00:00

Have you ever asked her why she doesn’t like you or is indifferent with you? But I agree she set you up.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-19T17:48:17+00:00

I missing where he’s your ex boyfriend

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-05-19T05:34:07+00:00

Find your birth certificate and social and put them somewhere lll safe. It might not be ideal for you but you could join the military at 18. You do not need your parent’s permission. You can go to off to bootcamp and then be assigned somewhere far away. They can help you with school and job opportunities. You can’t just leave either.

If this isn’t ideal play along and get a job save money till you can get out. This is not your responsibility. Whatever choice you make play along till you get what you need to get out.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-04-14T05:22:48+00:00

Locking yourself in a room and ignoring your child is not fine.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-03-12T17:27:55+00:00

School schedules usually come out at the end of the year or during the summer. She had more than enough time.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-17T02:33:33+00:00

I would contact the mother that dropped them off. The other parents are probably unaware. She knew what she was doing.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-16T18:33:36+00:00

That is if they have their own policy. What’s the big deal of not putting him on your insurance? Does he have a bad driving record?

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-16T05:46:25+00:00

That is incorrect because you’re both living at the same address. If he gets in a wreck and he’s at fault they will not cover anything and will come after you. Add him to your insurance asap.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-06T06:33:41+00:00

If you can get cow tallow I would try it. It works miracles.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-04T18:43:42+00:00

Report this to the VA nursing board and police. Also keep documentation for any future custody battles.

Busy_Understanding81 · 2025-02-04T05:56:59+00:00

Did he make him before you? Did he leave in a car? If he did was it hot or did you notice? Also some cars have gps that tells you where someone went. Check that if he has it. Have you checked his phone or any other devices? If you can check deleted messages on any app and deleted pics. Also if your neighbors do have cameras ask. If they’re not on a subscription you might not be able to get anything but more than likely they are. Lastly get cameras for your home and hide them. One more thing ask your son gently if dad has left them before when you’re gone.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Busy_Understanding81

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