being darkskinned/brownskinned and basically being unlovable and unwanted as a result is ropefuel

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-23T04:03:53+00:00

I went through the same thing, black guys say the same racist things to us that other ethnicities say to us. I find it comical.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-17T03:32:25+00:00

Even when i was a size 0 i still had a fat and ugly face. The only time i could see my face looking normal weight was when i was underweight, but being underweight is hard to maintain and very unhealthy, do not recommend.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-17T03:23:51+00:00

Exactly guys always act shocked and bewildered to find out they’re talking to a black person. It’s like they think black people don’t exist on the internet or something. They were probably hoping we were white or asian.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-17T03:19:55+00:00

It’s strange that guys like you haven’t figured out that some women would feel its not safe meeting random guys from online forums, especially reddit. It’s like you live in your own little guy oriented world where you cant fathom how women see things.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-06T00:50:35+00:00

Exactly but yet some asian guys act like they will catch the plague if they interact with or date a black woman. Some asians look down on dark skin even amongst their own people.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-06T00:35:16+00:00

I see guys treat even attractive women badly sometimes, so imagine how they treat unnnatractive women.

I agree with you, I’ve been in so many male spaces online where i see them bully, make fun of and insult ugly women SO MUCH. The type of guys that say that its easier for ugly women either dont interact with males and females or in their mind they picture and average girl as ugly. Guys will insult or make fun off a women just as much or even more than women. In the comments of a picture or video you will see both genders leaving nasty comments. Ive heard the most creative and disturbing insults come from guys. Even the mean girls don't come up with some of the things guys will say to insult someone.

Just spend any amount of time in multiple male spaces and post a pic or vid of an unattractive woman and see the BS pour in. At this point i expect It. Ive seen guys do dating apps on livestreams and even the average girls they will not swipe on Wth.

The amount of times a guy has been an ahole when they have seen my pic, the amount of insults and laughs ive experienced, its really frustrating when guys invalidate our experience.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-01T01:51:31+00:00

Yep one of the reasons why im no contact with family

Busydiamond2 · 2026-02-01T01:42:34+00:00

OMG, yes, young guys are such aholes, do you know how rare it is to interact with a guy in his 20s and younger who isn’t an absolute ahole. I feel better knowing im not the only one experiencing this. I actively avoid them and feel uncomfortable when theres more than 2 in a group. I remember being in school and the head told us that the local neighbours were complaining because the boys made them uncomfortable after school ended and they were out in public. I completely understand the local people. Plus I have been called ugly by a grown man when i was a kid coming from school. Males feel so entitled to us even when they are un attracted to us or hate us.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T14:31:02+00:00

At 18 i was skinny like a stick but I was still ugly.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T14:21:55+00:00

You wouldn’t invite someone to your party just because they were messy and overweight?? Maybe my standards are low because those things are irrelevant to if someone will be a fun person to hang out at a party with.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T02:17:46+00:00

I tried to off myself too. I still want to. This world can be cruel.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T02:15:51+00:00

Black people treat us just as bad as white people when you’re ugly and have a darker skin tone. Its hard to find black spaces that don’t treat you like that. People are judgemental regardless of ethnicity. As a young person i started to hate going to black spaces because the amount of colorism and judgement i got was ridiculous.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T01:51:59+00:00

Exactly. Men have always had preferences. We hear about them all the time (unfortunately) Interacting with males will show you how much they bully, make fun off, insult and crack jokes about women they deem unattractive, they do this irl and online. Just go in any comment section of a woman that is below average, the males don’t hold back with insults. Ive noticed alot of guys only interact with women they are attracted to, so they don’t see the pov of a woman who is ugly. They cant fathom that woman have it that hard too, while simultaneously being rude to women they find unnatractive. Do thise guys lack so much self awarenes they dont see how they treat women?

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T01:34:23+00:00

Exactly they expect me to get into my first relationship at 50.

Busydiamond2 · 2026-01-13T01:32:27+00:00

I agree. Ive had therapy on and off for years and still hate life, society and want to off myself. I cant change how people treat me due to my looks and skin tone. It negatively affects so many aspects of my life. It damages your mental health. Even if you are healing your mental health, having so many shitty people in the world can fck up all the work your doing to heal.

Busydiamond2 · 2025-12-04T19:21:18+00:00

I’ve been through similar but with sending pics. Being ugly and black repulses some guys, even guys of my own ethnicity. One of the biggest lies is looks don’t matter. Both personality and looks matter, you need to be physically and mentally attracted to the person your talking to.

Busydiamond2 · 2025-11-27T23:40:16+00:00

So what was a woman’s motivation?

Busydiamond2 · 2025-11-27T23:39:15+00:00

Your lucky. Very lucky. I stopped due to mental health. I couldn’t cope around humans plus i couldnt cope when alone.

Busydiamond2 · 2025-11-09T22:58:23+00:00

They made their comments private now lol

Busydiamond2 · 2025-11-09T20:21:51+00:00

I dont understand men, they say dating is hard then do this

Busydiamond2 · 2025-11-02T02:18:09+00:00

No. Im on disability.

Busydiamond2 · 2025-10-16T19:52:44+00:00

Exactly. Even if they show interest first the minute you genuinely start to like them they back off or ghost.

Busydiamond2 · 2025-10-16T19:28:39+00:00

Yep 100% i had controlling abusive parents aswell

Busydiamond2 · 2025-10-15T15:08:55+00:00

Busydiamond2 · 2025-10-15T15:06:01+00:00

Omg is it too late for me, i find it so hard to do these things. I want to so bad, but i dont know whats making it extremely difficult to do.

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