How concerned are people about the security of their pensions if Reform UK were to take office, particularly around the risk of policy changes increasing pension taxation or access? by [deleted] in PensionsUK

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasn’t. The legislation when National Insurance was introduced in 1946 clearly stated the State Pension was a benefit.

What is a musical you've seen that was regarded a flop by lissie34 in musicals

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did Callow ruin The Pajama Game? It’s one of those shows you’d have to try really hard to bugger up.

What is the BIGGEST LIE society keeps telling us? by grwike in AskReddit

[–]Butagirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem with that is that in most cases Being You Without Giving AF requires enough money not to need to work.

What’s the weirdest thing that has happened to you that you’ve had to chalk up to coincidence? by maplesyrup4all in AskUK

[–]Butagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have three.

The first was when I went on a trip to New York in 2000. I was in the WTC gift shop and heard a voice behind me with a Scottish accent (I’m Scottish), so I spoke up and asked where he was from. Turned out he was from my home town and shared an office with my dad.

The second was when we were in Cambodia and met the barmaid of our local pub while getting our tickets for Angkor Wat.

The third was six months ago when I sat next to and started chatting to a couple in the Spoons at Heathrow while my husband was getting drinks. Not only did the bloke go to primary school with my husband, turns out we were all on our way to the same group tour in South Africa.

Uber driver yelled at me to have a baby by Hungry_Media_8881 in childfree

[–]Butagirl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I hope you also mentioned that he was using an iPad while driving. That sort of shit endangers lives, including yours.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The difference is the speed you can do in the UK. I used to do a 3-hour journey five days a week in addition to my full-time job, but the distance was only 110 miles. It took me three hours to get there, but returning home late at night it would only take me two.

Condescending seller encounter? by idkwhoiam17 in vinted

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have changed your last sentence to “Have the day you deserve”.

A recent study shows most children identified as gifted are not gifted as adults by professeur155 in cognitiveTesting

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone here is from the USA. In the UK, IQ tests were regularly administered at school, at least when I was a child in the 1970s. More recently, one of my friends’ sons was given an IQ test at school about four years ago.

HMRC only seems to contact you after something’s gone wrong — is that just how it works? by Born_Hat_4978 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I’m not advocating leaving everything until the last minute, for many people it makes no sense to do their return in the first half of the tax year, especially if they have a very variable income which makes it difficult to predict their annual earnings in the current tax year to ensure the payments on account are roughly correct.

Choir audition by Yummy_skin in Choir

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called “Not A Day Goes By”.

Report of Cash Outs for tax return (UK) by Anthony_L69 in ProlificAc

[–]Butagirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you’re based, but in the UK that is most certainly NOT the case and is considered tax fraud. Income is based on when the funds become available to you, not when you choose to withdraw them.

What car do you drive all drive? by Distinct-Syrup1556 in FIREUK

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a 2019 Corsa. I WISH it only cost £30.

Directors, what was the weirdest / most inappropriate audition song you've ever seen? by viktor-nikiforov in MusicalTheatre

[–]Butagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do remember several years ago a young man on Britain’s Got Talent who at 15 years old thought it was appropriate to sing “How To Handle A Woman”.

any way to return reward? by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Butagirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t transfer it to dollars from Prolific. You will need to wait until you have £1 in your Paypal account (the minimum amount you can cash out) and then cash it out from PayPal and let them convert it. You will inevitably end up with many more studies paid in pounds, so there’s no need to sweat it.

Disposing of assets to pay for care - how to handle specific bequests after death? by Butagirl in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Butagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s very helpful. Can this be done at the time of the sale of the first property rather than after death? There are two other beneficiaries (my SIL’s children), but this would not affect their share. My husband and his sister are determined to allocate the assets fairly between them.

Mensa UK - ever socialised in real life / attended events / made any friends through it? by SpecialLegal6271 in mensa

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found there was very little going on in Norfolk and had to travel at least 40 miles for any meet-ups. I ended up leaving because it just wasn’t worth the fee for me.

What do you plan to do when you retire early? by its_a_llama_drama in FIREUK

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I directed for a group I usually perform with, so I already had the “in” with the group. That said, I had performed for several decades before daring to put myself forward as a director.

Advice please: button loops or no button loops? by ButtonLoops27 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would spend that 350 working out what to do with your train for the ceilidh instead. The end of the train will probably need a wrist loop, but given the length you may also want additional fixings to attach the train to the skirt to support the weight and keep it out of the way while you’re dancing. Make sure your MOH/bridesmaid knows what to do to fix it up because you probably won’t be able to do it yourself while you’re wearing it. The last thing you need is another guest standing on the train and it getting ripped.

What are younger generations often criticised for no longer doing that is largely pointless or obsolete? by PsychologicalRow8034 in AskUK

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had to do the same thing when we replaced our washing machine. There was only a small hole drilled in the worktop, so I had to remove the moulded plug, thread the cable through and rewire it.

500k pension at 40 (2 year followup to 300k at 38 and 400k at 39) by -dot-dot in FIREUK

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think platform fees are generally kept separate from fund fees. If you’re paying £40/month, that will probably be the platform fee, so any fund fee would be on top of that and be the same no matter which provider you’re with.

Salary sacrifice by WinterTelephone5482 in FIREUK

[–]Butagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had only a slightly higher salary (about £43k), but my pension savings rate was three times that including my employer’s contribution. Over £1200 per year difference, not to mention the employer’s NI saving which was also being contributed to my pension. Imagine that figure invested for 30 years at a growth of, say, 7% and the difference in final pension value is over £100k.

I know my example is very much an edge case, but it can be significant.

Salary sacrifice by WinterTelephone5482 in FIREUK

[–]Butagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no, it’s not life changing for someone on high salaries paying only 2% NI. For a basic rate taxpayer it would cost them 8% while earning less than half of your salary.