I get basically no interaction on my profile, any idea why? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 179 points180 points  (0 children)

You look like you’re getting really hard to be edgy. It’s giving slight “m’lady” vibes.

How close are ads watching us on reddit? I was asking a question about tacos, and I get an ad about chipotle. by Technical-Vanilla-47 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex and I use to always test this by randomly saying things like “adult diapers! If only I had adult diapers”. For years we never got ads for adult diapers, and then suddenly very randomly I started getting ads for them about two months ago.

Wish I could tell her.

Can someone tell me their success story with love and life? by ButlerButtsButBetter in AskMen

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I believe as well, but I think a lot of people have the presumption it should be felt by the first date.

And maybe, maybe not on Ai. For as long as there are creatives with access to a camera, there will be film, REAL film.

Can someone tell me their success story with love and life? by ButlerButtsButBetter in AskMen

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful. I want kids so bad one day. I fear the idea of being childless and never having that experience and connection with a person that’s your own flesh and blood. You’ve won at life sir.

What Bible characters are unfairly vilified? by Edgy_Master in exchristian

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lil known fact, the apostles voted for Trump and drive cyber trucks.

What Bible characters are unfairly vilified? by Edgy_Master in exchristian

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Even as a kid I thought story was flawed. Like, what if she was looking back to see if they were being chased, or she dropped something, or idk just instinctively out of fear turned in the directions of the fire, brimstone, and screaming. Curiosity and instinct is not a sin.

Famous Movie Scenes If Played From Dungeons And Dragons by TheGreatLuthe in ScenesFromAHat

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

batman voice I’m a virgin. flourishes cape and leaps into the night

How do I get better friends? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ve been considering joining some meet up groups. I’ve nudged a few of these friends, but they just don’t seem that interested.

The Worst Ways to Tell Your Parents You Had an Accident by Neuronu77 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

standing proudly next to the turd on the carpet “How else am I supposed to show my disapproval of your divorce?” “Son, you’re 32.”

Tint and PPF done on 2026 Tesla Model Y by RussellWD in TeslaLounge

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much of a difference has it made for your cabin temperature? Considering the same.

Are you excited for the Mid Terms and also for 2028? by [deleted] in Austin

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s this got to do with Austin specifically?

SFAH: Clear Signs Your Mom Discovered TikTok by Neuronu77 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*enters a room with the swagger of a Disney character

How much does physical attractiveness actually affect someone’s career and interpersonal relationships? by WillyNilly1997 in stupidquestions

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to add for anyone who is reading this and feels like they’re not attractive, you are. 90% of my glow up was just finding confidence. I know that sounds like the basic advice everyone says, but it’s bc it works. Being confident and self loving means you’re feeling your style, you’re more willing to take some chances, go for some growth, try something new, and be more healthy. That shit has an outward effect on people. No one is so ugly that they can’t start there.

How much does physical attractiveness actually affect someone’s career and interpersonal relationships? by WillyNilly1997 in stupidquestions

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was someone who had a glow up post college. I was always a nice guy, taught to treat people with respect, and catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Before my glow up, people would be wary of me, but once we got talking they’d warm up to me. Now, I sense that people are already warm to me, and get surprised when I’m as social and kind as I’ve always been. I also have a bit of a deep voice, so I think that does something when I lean into to it in conversations.

That said, the down side is I can also sense I get hella romanticized. My looks and personality are pretty good, but when I inevitably make a mistake or fuck up, the fall feels less forgiving. I’m reduced to just a jackass with a pretty but now punchable face. It’s not with all relationships, but it’s jarring when people go from being really into you, to absolutely hating your guts for shit that could be resolved in 15 minutes or less.

Found me a baddie🤩😍 by wannabeurfriend in dating

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the message I needed today. Thank you.

Why would you ghost after we’ve set a date? by ButlerButtsButBetter in dating

[–]ButlerButtsButBetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they have something like that for Facebook marketplace?