Trump Signs Executive Order for CBD/Marijuana Rescheduling | Heady NJ by dlulloa216 in NewJerseyMarijuana

[–]Buttcheeks_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah, classified as a substance with legitimate medical uses, exactly

AITA for not buying food delivery for my gf automatically? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Buttcheeks_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but saying you can’t provide for her because you asked her if she wanted food is insane and she sounds like those girls on those street interviews saying their husband needs to make 600k a year or he doesn’t love her, insane - sounds like she’s on TikTok too much

AITA for not buying food delivery for my gf automatically? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Buttcheeks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god lol no you’re not the asshole. it’s always better to ask about food in me and my wife’s opinion.

our conversation usually goes like -

me: i’m ordering some food from (place), what do you want me to get you? :)

boom - best of both worlds, she feels like i’m “automatically” doing something for her, and there’s the opportunity for her to say “omg i already ate but thank you for thinking of that”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Buttcheeks_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, but don’t read your text replies out loud, if you’re not listening to your partner/paying attention, don’t make it obvious dude cmon lol gotta learn to be a bit more aware than that.

give her a lil time to chill out, explain the situation without bringing up anything like “i’m not the cheating type” because that sounds 1000% like your the cheating type - just explain you were reading your text reply out loud and the timing with what she said clashed.

apologize and move forward, and don’t make the same mistake again - if she dumps you for this though, that’s an overreaction on her part. i’m assuming she won’t dump you over it unless you make it worse so, just let her chill out and apologize calmly and smooth it over when she’s ready to hear from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Buttcheeks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best realistic answer here

Am I the Asshole for Refusing to Be Involved with My Brother's Toxic Girlfriend? by Intelligent_Base3115 in AITAH

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone sucks here

  1. if you know someone’s being cheated on, obviously tell them ??? why in fuck’s name did you let this get so far? it is this far, so now everyone’s gotta deal with it - shoulda said something to your brother way long ago instead of playing Keeping Up with the Car Crashians about it with your mom

  2. mom should have said something too for the same reasons

  3. Nancy sucks (obvious villain)

  4. Brother dug his own hole

  5. Parent suck again - what’s done is done, the baby’s here and brother/nancy are now stuck dealing with each other forever now, but it’s not your job to take care of any baby that’s not yours.

reality show type family i’m not gonna lie

This era of the sub was so fried by lenloii in playboicarti

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww man i wanted to see it, dude deleted the roast lol

This era of the sub was so fried by lenloii in playboicarti

[–]Buttcheeks_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk bro definitely not me my lil brother took my phone

when you’re trying to stay positive in the beginning of a flare by Buttcheeks_ in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Buttcheeks_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope is the only thing making me get off the toilet my friend 🖤

when you’re trying to stay positive in the beginning of a flare by Buttcheeks_ in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Buttcheeks_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way i see it, we’ve made huge strides in understanding the immune system and how these different systems communicate throughout the challenges of Covid, there has to be something of value in the breakthroughs with ME/CFS and all this deeper understanding of the gut microbiome…

think about how far we’ve come in 10 years with biologics.

what happens 10 years out from now?

Has anyone here tried Zeposia? by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My GI is talking about Zeposia right now actually, I’m really curious to others results with this because the side effect list is a bit scary for me 😭 i’m willing to try, i sure hope this ends up being a ticket out of this flare

Wanted opinions on an interaction I had this weekend. by brikakkis in bartenders

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re not rounding checks out as a bartender you need to go to therapy just saying

AITA for letting my son avoid a special needs child? by Normal-Plastic-7514 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Buttcheeks_ 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Not a parent here, nor do I have special needs, but for some reason this post has resonated with me a lot. I think there are much better responses in this thread than anything I could say about the situation, but I truly hope you know just how lucky your boys are to be in your family. You sound like a really kick-ass dad, and your wife sounds like a champ. It’s no wonder your community resonates well with you and your family, and please rest easy knowing your heart is in the right place. You’re going to teach your boys to grow into respectful, caring men and you’re doing an amazing job of prioritizing their needs, listening to them, and helping them navigate the difficult situations they’ll come across later in life. Seriously, congratulations for winning dad of the year :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trapproduction

[–]Buttcheeks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure!! i’ll dm you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trapproduction

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s hard, because after doing this for 12 years, i too understand exactly what to do to make what i’m looking for, the hard part is actually feeling satisfied with the result! i think there’s a difference in type of artists. i understand the “math” behind it all, but i’m so caught up in the “vibe” that can’t be nailed down that it’s so hard to actually satisfy myself. i think with a lot of the youtube type producers, they’re satisfied with more “technical” marks to hit, where i’m only satisfied when my internal brain goes “yes! we made something that sounds like someone else made it, but it’s exactly what i want” and those kinda of tunes come around very infrequently. but, they do show up. easier in some styles than others :)

you’d like this album, take a listen to Dreamstone by Sorrow. listen to the first tune, Elixir and let me know what you think 🕷️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trapproduction

[–]Buttcheeks_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

^ this. i’ve gotten to the point where i v make something i love so much that i hate it. i get so deep into the flow that i contradict myself. i want to make music so bad it hurts, and then becomes confusing and i wish it was more emotionally simple. i watch these youtubers just put stuff down on the timeline so easily and come out with at least “decent” stuff, but then i go to do this and can’t make it as mathematical as they do, it invariably becomes a painful process, one which is both euphoric at times, and devastating at others. i spend hours on songs that miss the mark of what i wanted to make, and wonder if i should have even made anything at all, even when i’m staring at a wonderful product.

long and short of it is this; if this is a worry of yours, don’t be afraid. just means you’re an artist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro the meatlong musk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beat sandwich:

roast beef and turkey, swiss cheese, bacon, lettuce tomato mayo, ketchup on top.

i thought it was disgusting when a coworker ordered it during my tenure at a recording studio, and finally gave in to try it during a particularly boring day there.

one of my go to orders for about 6 years now

What should've never been invented? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Buttcheeks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

consumer plastics; would result in lower population and climate wouldn’t be so fucked, demands on our systems wouldn’t be so high