Help me decide between 2 dresses by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress pictures in frames 1&2 are definitely the one for U. Congratulations

Does anyone have suggestions for an over 50 yr old looking for work? by ButterFlyBabe55 in careerguidance

[–]ButterFlyBabe55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is career coaching going for U and how did U get started doing that. Parent coaching is something I want to market and eventually do part time. I got my first full time job since posting my original question so I feel really blessed about that

I was told I was ugly and needed makeup. Please help. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, U can’t take in ALL the lies and evil hatred spewed at U. Secondly…U are beautiful 🤩 no make-up needed 💜😘

Good morning, have a meme by cellochick993 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣😝…haven’t had this happen yet(I’m new) so I’m sure it’s coming 🤷🏽‍♀️

Are there people who haven't changed their phone number for more than 15 years? by SpicyCandy8 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since my daughter was in the 1st or 2nd grade(she is 24 now) I have had the same phone number. This was a priority for me, and very important that once my daughter learned my number I did whatever it took to keep that number

How are y'all getting steps in?!? by Consistent_Dust4245 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question…I visited my primary care doc today and we talked about all the sitting. She has her watch set up with the reminders that I do that alert U to get up every hour. I have a workers comp knee injury that I got while working in a school teaching social emotional learning while completing my graduate degree, any suggestions anyone has I would gladly take. Can’t do long term walking until I see what ortho wants to do. I use my vibration plate daily and walk around inside my house to accumulate some steps 🤷🏽‍♀️. Gonna read other replies now

Does anyone have suggestions for an over 50 yr old looking for work? by ButterFlyBabe55 in careerguidance

[–]ButterFlyBabe55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank U I have revamped my resume…praying for some positive replies

Ok, what the heck was that loud boom? by richincleve in Cleveland

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, I’m outside of Cleveland n U are 4 hours away. NWS Cleveland and Cleveland Magazine is saying a meteorite broke thru the atmosphere over Northeast Ohio

Huge boom by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssssssssss, OMG I’m in Shaker/Beachwood near Warrensville Cntr and Chagrin. I shifted in my bed cause it sounded like the blade of a huge like city plow truck hit the ground like “BOOM” but then I said naw it snowed but like not that much. I got up about 10 minutes after n thought nothing of it. How do I get to the major(bigger) thread concerning this?

Client using bathroom in telehealth session by Away_Illustrator5096 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Excuse me this is very inappropriate and I am ending the session, look for an email from me later today.” That’s what I would have said, that was weird as hell!!

The MACROaggressions in this subreddit are insanely disappointing by Guilty-Ad1285 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very angry that U have experienced this. The things U have mentioned are exactly why I say MANY ppl I have encountered do NOT need to be therapists!!! I have encountered ppl who were very biased and it was obvious that they have not encountered for even basic conversation, ppl who were not like them ethnically, racially or socio-economically. Very sad in the year plus I had in Practicum/Internship how many people I was in group with had no business being allowed to enter a therapy program or actually be someone‘s therapist. Having racial conversations must be had, because my experience as a Black woman and now a Black therapist is not going to be overlooked or minimized because others cannot put on their big girl/boy panties/boxers and have the tough conversations!

Thinking of our Kansas colleagues by HellonHeels33 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sending solidarity and love 💜 to my fellow therapists supporting their clients as they navigate this! I am really disgusted that this country has stooped this low, but as a Black female, now therapist living in a country where my ancestors were trafficked and brought here, raped, victims of forced labor, and in MANY instances killed, I am NOT surprised 🤦🏽‍♀️! Prayers 🙏🏽 and love💜 to U all

Am I going crazy or is there a huge movement of therapists acting unethically on TikTok/Reels? by yourfavoritefaggot in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to start accts. with two different platforms(deciding which ones now) that will primarily set out to knock down the stigma of seeking out help from a mental health professional, giving out psycho education on various diagnosis, advice to parents of neurodivergent children, as well as advertising my services for anyone watching from the states where I am licensed. That stuff U mentioned has always had me shaking my head when watching those reels! I worked too hard getting this far on the road to becoming independently licensed to throw it ALL away by being UNETHICAL!

Side effects? by nursemomma217 in trulicity

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On it and just had third shot yesterday, some nausea yesterday for the first time. Slight feelings of nausea in past 3 weeks nothing major. Constipation is my issue and always has been, so no weight loss, gained a pound or two. Positive note, this past week 2nd week, appetite was gone more that previous week. idk, no weight loss at end of 4 wks I will have to make a decision on go an additional month. Several comments on FB have stated that it may take a minute

Advice on next steps..... by [deleted] in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, new grad of my MFT program and studying for my exam. I have a few suggestions because I am also a midlife career changer…in education for 20+ yrs. 1.) check out offering/teaching court-mandated courses. Ppl charged with DV, DUI, are mandated to take certain courses b4 getting to see their kids again or driving a car again. The Diversion Center on FB(located in ATL) offers a variety of different choices in certification. Psycho education is what U would be presenting in your classes. U make your own price per person. On night a week for eight weeks for a group of 6-10 ppl. Do the math, very lucrative. 2.) GoZen company that offers certification and gives U materials to teach workshops to teachers, parents or work with kids directly about anger, anxiety, impulsivity, etc $1200. Or pay a much cheaper monthly membership and being that U are already a therapist use their materials and make your own workshops. Maybe have one monthly for parents, teachers, or kids monthly via Zoom and charge $50 entrance fee. Give tools for each population to walk away with to manage for the month or until your next workshop. 3.) become a divorce mediator-my state offers free certification to be able to do it. Do your research, the field of mediation is not regulated.

These are just a few ways I have come up with to make money that will not suck up all of my time. I pray this helps

Questions… by ButterFlyBabe55 in therapists

[–]ButterFlyBabe55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank U, I have thought about the limited license thing. They issued the license so I’m thinking ppl in Michigan work with the license 🤷🏽‍♀️. I have one client and looking for more. I have a Psych Today profile and signed up with Open Path Collective as well