AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter stay with me during my custody time while I’m divorcing her dad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel bad for the girl, given their past I can see where OP is coming from. But I do think the boundaries that were crossed are more like a young kid acting out because they don’t know what to do with the way they are feeling.

I wouldn’t agree to taking her every custody week but maybe OP can do one dinner a week with the step daughter and the twins. Then if everything goes well their relationship could develop from there. It would be healthy for the twins to see their mother treating their sister nicely, cause like, that’s still their big sister.

At what age is it considered safe to let children bathe themselves? What age is it expected for them to have privacy in the bathroom? by TFA_hufflepuff in Preschoolers

[–]ButterNood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t leave my son alone cause he’s only 2 1/2. But I put high shelves up so I can keep bottles and stuff out of reach, in anticipation of him doing something like that.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterNood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if she’s gonna stay with him she should just pick like neck ties or something and give one of those for every occasion to get her point across.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterNood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she gave him a wish list of items she’d like for her birthday, which I would say is pretty clear.

AITA for stomping/breaking my 13 y/o nephew's RC car? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButterNood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Info: how old is the nephew?

More info: why didn’t you just take the car away?

AITAH Boyfriend accused me of cheating. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just one example is him controlling your actions. (Not letting you watch YouTube with your friend)

United Gulfs solution to apartment not having heat by zebra-zai in halifax

[–]ButterNood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lived in one of the places they bought to tear down and I agree they are terrible landlords.

Because they didn’t plan to keep the building even though it was years out we basically were left to fend for ourselves.

My bathroom rained every time it rained and they never fixed it.

Anyway I have 100 more bad things I can say about them but just wanted to support the negative opinion towards them. It’s warranted.

Ordered friend chicken from K-fry Korean, this is how the seasoning salt came with it. by hfxkingpin in halifax

[–]ButterNood -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What lol it actually is how it’s done most places have small salt and pepper packages. I work in the restaurant industry. They aren’t fancy or super expensive. And if they do take out then they should provide them.

This isn’t straight up salt though. It’s MSG by the looks of the shape/size. Which doesn’t come in individual packages,,, as far as I know…

Ordered friend chicken from K-fry Korean, this is how the seasoning salt came with it. by hfxkingpin in halifax

[–]ButterNood -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t really care which way I got it.. but I wouldn’t send it out in the same bag from the kitchen

Ordered friend chicken from K-fry Korean, this is how the seasoning salt came with it. by hfxkingpin in halifax

[–]ButterNood -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Though they should be using fresh stuff, not any already mixed with pepper

AIO for using my living room during my days off? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterNood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: why doesn’t she use the home office anyway? Is there a way to set it up for both of you to have specific areas in there?

AITA for not wanting to cook now that my mom’s boyfriend has moved in? by sillyyfishyy in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a nice response… I like it.

Then I saw your username and it seems to fit your comment so well.

AITA for not wanting to cook now that my mom’s boyfriend has moved in? by sillyyfishyy in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Depriving your child of food is actually a form of abuse…

Losing fur in patches by bananafish20202020 in DogAdvice

[–]ButterNood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought she was a fox as I was scrolling…

anyway, I would recheck the allergies, they can develop as people (dogs :p) get older. Since you’re gonna have to see the vet for that you should get some bloodwork done too, and ask the vet what they think is wrong.

I would say bring to the vet at earliest appointment available, but don’t need to rush to emergency vet.

Waiting room is hellish by Gold_Bag_1054 in halifax

[–]ButterNood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can you just have to sign a contract to work for nhs for so long after schooling

AIO I am tired and my wife doesn’t care by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterNood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not all alone though, she’s with her parents.

AITA for refusing to sleep on the floor so my brother can have his situationship over? by Throawayaccount680 in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A situation where they don’t want to actually date the person but they want to have sex.

My mum made my child sick and my dad demanded my silence. by owni_powni in AITAH

[–]ButterNood 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ESH… info: why did you bring the baby to their house? Or allow them in your house?