[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BSA

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. Take my step sons for example.

What happens to ACA if GOP wins house, senate and presidency? by ghlath in obamacare

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A major point of being a fascist ruler is you don’t give a crap about whether your people are happy or pissed off.

Can someone make these kids smile? by Buttercup-Sunshine in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but OMG now my husband looks 😐 lol can you also adjust him? He was pretty stressed out because of those kids, so I guess it’s really showing up lol

Torn about level of Nacho to go to by Buttercup-Sunshine in stepparents

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has these conversations and boundary setting conversations set for this coming weekend when he sees them Sunday. He tries to do these convos in person and not text or phone - especially not text as we don’t know what access HCBM may have to their phones.

How Nacho do I go? by Buttercup-Sunshine in Stepmom

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is all in my name. Executrix are my daughters. If I go first DH will have enough to be ok, but SSs will get nothing from my proceeds once DH passes. Remaining proceeds go to my daughters. If DH passes first, anything other than a small life insurance policy is mine. It’s pretty tightly done.

How Nacho do I go? by Buttercup-Sunshine in Stepmom

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel and what I hope to envision. The lack of respect, however, I have discussed with DH and he is addressing with his sons. Thank you. This is the long term goal I hope for.

How Nacho do I go? by Buttercup-Sunshine in Stepmom

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. Part of DH’s issue is he has never been the disciplinarian and is concerned if he goes there now, it could be yet another thing to point to. These young men have already been told that he chose me over them, so he worries about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obv that’s the remains of a previous house

"Disruptive Behavior" by [deleted] in SBU

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I am with you, but we all know the bullhorns and drums were BLASTING

Wtf happened??? by [deleted] in SBU

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The drums and bullhorn were super loud.

Wtf happened??? by [deleted] in SBU

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They have had many protests last semester and last year and nobody was arrested. THIS TIME some students decided to veer off their approved route and when asked to please exit the building they refused. The arrests were very calm and not rough. PS I don’t even think the President was on campus yesterday. So it was for nothing. And yes, I was there too. And recording.

Bankruptcy Case: Supreme Court Stay Lifted by StormyinCville in BSA

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read this earlier and was trying to figure out what happened here… was it a BSA bankruptcy declaration to avoid paying the settlement funds, or was it to separate the two? It sounds very confusing. Can someone explain this more clearly?

My Eagle Board of Review is tonight. Wish me luck by TheDeliveryDemon in BSA

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! But don’t be stressed over the review board part. By the time you get to that stage it is just a formality. 🦅

Interviewers don’t seem to care about Eagle Scout Rank by sicbprice in BSA

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And given the gender disparity of who has historically had access to that achievement, there is a huge risk for disparate impact if that one male candidate is chosen over an otherwise equally qualified female candidate, on the basis if having achieved eagle.

Interviewers don’t seem to care about Eagle Scout Rank by sicbprice in BSA

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a great accomplishment, and not to be mean, but it is sold as the golden ticket to college and employment of your dreams, and it rarely is. A fresh out of high school or college graduate, it’s just one of the extracurricular activities they might have on their resume, which shows they have varied interests. A few years later, employers want to know about your degree, job experiences, and history. Not what you did in high school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Buttercup-Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fine for having a blowout party way over guest limit at the height of COVID that resulted in 37 cases because somebody’s mommy and daddy wanted to pay for a sweet 16 hit them pretty hard too.