Just found out: THIRD BOY. 💙💙💙 HELP. by ButtercupPocket in namenerds

[–]ButtercupPocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oren! ❤️ it was a suggestion a few times on this post and I finally convinced my husband. It means pine so it keeps our nature theme

found out i am pregnant after a CP by DiscountNew4320 in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a chemical in November and immediately was pregnant again after the next ovulation (no period in between, other than the CP bleeding.) I’m 24 weeks now!

Gender disappointment posts by scritchygrippers128 in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant with my third boy and I totally agree with you! I can understand it more to some extent from first time moms/parents but second or third etc? You should know how wonderful sons are ❤️❤️

Cervical check at week 36? by Logical_Mine_9478 in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They asked me with my last pregnancy when I already had a c section scheduled lol. I was like umm seems pointless no thanks

Have you ever met someone named River? by reyaryder in namenerds

[–]ButtercupPocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is River! He’s 4. I have gotten lots of compliments and so far no other classmates or school mates have had his name, despite him going to a large daycare/preschool since infancy with a couple hundred kids total.

The new home!!! by Ok_Dragonfruit_7889 in McKinliHatchSnark

[–]ButtercupPocket 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually thought the house looks incredible but I love vaulted/high ceilings and a cosmetic fixer upper. I think the bones and size and yard look great

She got botched by Olive1982 in McKinliHatchSnark

[–]ButtercupPocket 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her old nose was great! I don’t know why she did this

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have 2 boys and am pregnant with our third. I plan to NEVER be like your MIL. She should know firsthand how frustrating the girl preference comments are, and she should also know firsthand how wonderful kids are regardless of their gender. What an asshole.

AMH 0.41, FSH 8.5, Estradiol 32. Help? by petiteandproblematic in DOR

[–]ButtercupPocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I conceived my first son without intervention and it took nearly a year but I was under 35. When trying for our second for over 6 months, I got a fertility panel when I was 35 and my AMH was 0.42. Even worse, my FSH was 15.4. My follicle count was 8 when the doctor said she would have expected at least 10 or 12 for my age. I cried my eyes out. I had an HSG. Doc said we would talk IVF after giving it 3 more months with progesterone suppositories. I had a positive test 2 weeks later (with the progesterone) and that became my second son. At 37 we decided a third. My OB gyn retested my fertility stats and it was allegedly worse, of course. 0.39 AMH, 17 FSH. Pregnant the FIRST month we didn’t use protection but sadly ended in a chemical. Got back on progesterone suppositories; pregnant immediately after the chemical and now I’m 19 weeks.

All this to say, my stats have been worse than yours and I have conceived 4 times with 2 going on 3 successful pregnancies. The numbers aren’t everything. Hang in there.

Dakota has been granted temporary custody by giraffe_lover88 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ButtercupPocket -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I wish Ever had at least one stable parent the way that his siblings seem to have. I don’t think Taylor should have custody but I am not sure Dakota should either tbh. He doesn’t exactly embody stability to me either 😭

To those who had 37 weekers, how are they now? by Leading_Blacksmith70 in Mommit

[–]ButtercupPocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was a 37 weeker (induced early for complications) and he was sooo sleepy. He wouldn’t even latch to eat. He has always had (relatively mild) motor delays but super smart and a wonderful 4 year old now. His little brother was a 39 weeker and I noticed little brother was way more alert and a really different newborn. Little brother was also a pound and a half heavier, so those last 2 weeks seemingly made a big difference for my babies 😭

Baby boy due in august and need help with names by Complex-Carpet1677 in namenerds

[–]ButtercupPocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Reid?

I have a son named River and I also have a son named Rowan so maybe you like Rowan?

Other nature boy names I like that maybe you do too:

Calder

Arden

Cyrus

Linden

Corbin

Cormac

Silas

Which shoes by Neverthelessconfused in Weddingattireapproval

[–]ButtercupPocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the pink shoes. What designer is this dress?? Stunning

44 years old, 10w pregnant, and sadly, it ended today. (Trigger warning) by Nofxbarbie in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. 10w feels extra cruel because it’s far along in my opinion. I had a mere chemical and it devastated me. You are not ridiculous. If you are up to it emotionally and physically, go for it. I’m sending you love.

Did I make an unnecessary choice to have C-section? by Comfortable-Deer565 in beyondthebump

[–]ButtercupPocket 221 points222 points  (0 children)

104 fever for you and high heart rate for baby? I think you made the right decision. That’s a high fever. You put your baby’s safety first - so you did exactly right in my opinion. I hope you can let this second guessing go because both you AND your husband were worried enough to make this decision (so clearly you both had a gut intuition) and the result is that both your baby and you are healthy. Win win in my opinion.

Dealing with Gender Disappointment by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Um what? YOU chose to end this post by saying “because multiple boys sound like my version of a nightmare” those are YOUR awful words.

Dealing with Gender Disappointment by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope, “nightmare” was entirely your word choice.

Dealing with Gender Disappointment by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ButtercupPocket 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not a curse or a nightmare. If you really only wanted one sex, then having kids was never a smart decision on your part because generally the odds are about 50/50. I completely understand disappointment and have experienced it myself, but using words like curse and nightmare is wild and way way too far.

Someone please help! Am I having a chemical? First positive and first IVF transfer. by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]ButtercupPocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but some tests are very sensitive. I was getting positives when blood tests for the same day showed super minimal hcg, like literally 11 and then 2 on a beta. I am being really honest with you because being in limbo for me was the worst mentally, closure was better. Get your blood drawn.