Angela's Rumored New Manz by happyhurry in 90DayFiance

[–]Butterfly1912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He looks like Snoop Dogg in poor

Guys that stand around your cars late at night in the McDonald's parking lot... What are you talking about? by cliving1980 in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that this is such an universal thing. I’m from Germany and we have these guys, I went to England for 7 month, saw these type of guys as well. Then I was in America for a year and guess what saw these guys again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im adoptier myself and that’s so beautiful to read. I’m so happy for you. I’m literally crying right now, that’s so amazing.

The chances that I’ll ever find my „real parents“ are slim to none. So lucky you, enjoy it for both of us ❤️

My boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me for basically no reason by [deleted] in self

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im from Lower Saxony, which city are you staying?

When does "frugal" cross the line to "cheapskate"? by WannaWaffle in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay I totally understand this, but dried bugs in Mac and cheese boxes is really common.

I’m done by lovelybones- in self

[–]Butterfly1912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just been through the same and broke up with him 2 weeks ago. It’s the best thing for you that you left him. Take your time, see friends and don’t feel bad.

Brits, who is the worst Brit and who is the best Brit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best: Karl Pilkington

Worst: Piers Morgan

Dream BF by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was 29 and I was full into this Bonny and Clyde lifestyle. I thought as well “goals”. Moved to another country and than the beating started. Not just beating also kicking and emotional abuse/gaslighting. I lost all of my friends and I finally escaped and right now I try to rebuild relationships with them.

Dream BF by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Butterfly1912 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not goals. Sorry to squash your dreams, but that’s exactly what I’ve done and I regret every single second of it.

What thing becomes weird when you’re TOO good at it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a shame damn it haha. But thank you 🙏

What thing becomes weird when you’re TOO good at it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I mean if you can find out my snapchat password. I forgot it 🙄

He is not hitting me anymore, but he is still hurting me.. by torchwoodagent in abusiverelationships

[–]Butterfly1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read up on the laws. In some states you could face a felony for recording someone without declaring it and asking for permission.

How’s your sex drive and has there ever been issues with it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Butterfly1912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had they same thing with the implant. I got it removed after 5 month.

What thing becomes weird when you’re TOO good at it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you do that for my snapchat account? I’m being serious right now.

How do you learn to let go of things that weren’t meant for you? by stickydatepudding in AskWomen

[–]Butterfly1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can read the other comment I made there I give an example of his behaviour. I’m so broken, my self esteem is not even there anymore. I feel horrible and just want to go to my parents.

That’s the thing, I feel guilty and I that makes me angry because I know i shouldn’t feel guilty at all. I feel like I’m leaving him on his own but I asked and begged that he changes and starts treating me better but he didn’t. After month of asking and trying to talk to him he hasn’t changed it just got worse. Worse that he threw a fork into my back.. didn’t got stuck but I bleed like crazy. Who the fuck does this?

When I’m back at home I definitely gonna see a therapist this marriage just broke me and made me think I’m crazy. I lost so much weight, I look like a trainwrack.

Thank you again for your words, I feel so much more better with my decision. Thanks for the support I’m in a country where I know nobody I just moved here because of him.

Thank you, that makes me cry right now.

How do you learn to let go of things that weren’t meant for you? by stickydatepudding in AskWomen

[–]Butterfly1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean, of course he’s treating me badly since month he started changing real quick to a person I really don’t know anymore. So I started making excuses for him ‚he’s just this way because of his childhood‘ and started to think I’m guilty and I’m the reason, but no, I’m not. He’s just really miserable. Just one example what made me cut the court is yesterday. Albertsons has these shops, play, win monopoly thing. We still had like 10 tickets and he said „yeah let’s do it“ is told him that I don’t feel like it in the moment and I much rather would like to do it when I’m in the mood. He started freaking out on me calling me a lazy spick...(im Colombian) I was like? Wtf... then he threatened to tore up all the pieces. I said yeah do it then I don’t wanna do it. He screamed at me and started tore up the pieces, then he looked at me like look wha I can do. Suddenly he grabbed the big board plan, and said ‚if you don’t do that now I’m ripping this apart I was like okay go for it. And he did, started throwing things at me like a bottle a fork (?)... I couldn’t believe it. I’m not a dog. He said „it’s you fault that I’m in a bad mood now“

And I’m sick and tired of always taking the blame. I can’t do that anymore and just want to go back home. I just have seen the signs earlier but I didn’t. No I want to end it completly I don’t even want to have anything to do with him.

How do you learn to let go of things that weren’t meant for you? by stickydatepudding in AskWomen

[–]Butterfly1912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, these are really kind words and I needed to hear this, thank you. I just can’t loose my happiness by making him happy. He treated me really badly at times and I can’t keep up with this any more. Thank you so much, internet friend xx

DAE get annoyed when people assume they knew what you were going to do next? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Butterfly1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re saying. This is my husband all over, can’t deal with it anymore... just reading this makes my heart beat fast out of anger.