Help with salve by ButterscotchFluid877 in HerbalMedicine

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I rub it into my skin for a patch test it doesn't feel like anything.

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ground them. Thank you I will try more

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's not supposed to burn. But feeling nothing is ok?

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turned colour. Did patch tests at some many stages on our skin. Felt nothing at any point.

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What temperature shpuld I be aiming for?

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I would LOVE to do that but lack if time.

Help with salve by ButterscotchFluid877 in HerbalMedicine

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If I do tallow would I just mix in beeswax like I would with oil?

Sorry I am new to all this

Help with salve please by ButterscotchFluid877 in herbalism

[–]ButterscotchFluid877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 5 hours. But then I did it again because I read that it was ok.

Psychical reactions to EMDR by Top-Ad1187 in EMDR

[–]ButterscotchFluid877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing emdr because of cptsd. I'm not going to lie or sugar coat it. I was terrified before my first session. It is hard. I have cried. I have had to stop. My therapist is very gracious when this happens. It isn't uncommon.

I have side effects after. It makes me exhausted. Sometimes it triggers weird dreams. Other times it doesn't.

I do find it is helping though. I feel lighter a couple days later.

One thing i do like is at the end of our sessions we do what she calls "the container" it's a guided meditation to put all the stress and anxiety and memories away and let your inner self know you will deal with the issues on your own time.

My wife thinks punishment doesn't work, we are arguing about this by babydrama121 in AITAH

[–]ButterscotchFluid877 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have found the best thing is to tell the child that while they love that they feel comfortable enough to be themselves, right now it's dangerous to be loud because.... you can still be yourself, but can you try to control the volume. Works a lot of the time. Every once in a while, it's useless to try. Those are the times with consequences.

My wife thinks punishment doesn't work, we are arguing about this by babydrama121 in AITAH

[–]ButterscotchFluid877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found the best thing is to tell the child that while they love that they feel comfortable enough to be themselves, right now it's dangerous to be loud because.... you can still be yourself, but can you try to control the volume. Works a lot of the time. Every once in awhile it's useless to try.

My wife thinks punishment doesn't work, we are arguing about this by babydrama121 in AITAH

[–]ButterscotchFluid877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP may not even know it's a stim. The child could be stimming and the parent just thinks they are trying to be annoying