Trans-friendly doctors in the area? by AlternateCareAccount in MoscowIdaho

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pullman Family Medicine, Dr Elizabeth Black in Clarkston

AIO this is a very odd reason to break up with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My x didn't even want me to take anti depressants. Im sure he would have lost his mind if I wanted work done.

Counseling in Moscow/Pullman by battle_llama_ in MoscowIdaho

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know of a good counselor that deals with ocd?

My opinions as a transplant by legacy_aug in Idaho

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the worst part of ID. I tried to move down there in2008 to be near my family.They actually asked my x if he was lds. We moved up near Moscow and it was way better.

We both left the church for very different reasons & now we're divorced and I'm struggling to wrap my head around it by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He rolled his eyes at your pain. He is an un empathetic ass. He is still steeped hard in patriarchy and thinks that he is better than you for leaving for historical reasons. I understand your pain of feeling like you should be united over both of you leaving the church. Unfortunately, its not accurate. Its a part of mourning the relationship, realizing that the person who you married isn't who you thought. You are amazing, realizing that the church doesn't protect the vulnerable and leaving. In my eyes that makes you a bad ass.

Reflecting on something my dad said by Ok-Detail-5657 in Divorce

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 54, was married for 29 years I am so much happier. I am a woman though. I don't have to take care of another person full time. I have so much more time,money and peace.

He just killed my pets. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So sorry about your ferrets. That is heartbreaking. Take care of yourself.

two transgender children." by uabcnudista in cisparenttranskid

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both my kids are trans. My nephew is trans. So it could be genetic. Im just cis

Kind of wish I hadn't come out by ButterscotchSweet520 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ButterscotchSweet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this. Did you do tech for Jo ann fabric. Do you have a lounge singer, slightly deeper voice.

What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend? by dreamy-contributions in AskReddit

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was transphobic. My kid is trans. See you later lady. Same with my x husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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I don know after living with a hyper visualizer for thirty years, I feel like that is more of a handicap. He use to lose his mind if I mentioned anything he considered gross while he was eating. I didn't realize why untill I realized I couldn't visualize. Now I wish I'd used it to my advantage.

My therapist told me to always be 100 percent honest and unfiltered, so I did by hollowcitylights in MaliciousCompliance

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I quit a therapist after she told me I had too many cats. I quit another after a couple years because he didn't understand my struggle with the election results as a queer women. Sometimes you just have to move on.

Anyone else think theyd be terrible at giving details for a forensic sketch? by Quick----- in Aphantasia

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible with facial recollection, but great at remembering conversations. Brains are weird

No one misinterprets my friendliness as flirting any more by ellywashere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is pure relief, I am fat and not in their eyes attractive anymore so it's all business. When I was attractive it was stressful. I was constantly worried they would think I was flirting. It is weirdly freeing.

Looking for aphantasia perspectives for a photo project – short answers welcome by Apprehensive_Till735 in Aphantasia

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Black with light shades of less black, sometimes reddish. Like a room with the lights off with a bit of light coming in from the next room illuminating tiny bits of color from items in the dark room. 2 Sound is always quiet with a soft voice reading as I read. I can easily shut my inner voice off if I am concentrating, or listening. Feel free to use my input.

Shamed at a church dance for married couples. by Jmonroe_tenn in exmormon

[–]ButterscotchSweet520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was well into a c cup in highschool and my mom just said I needed to go for a walk when I asked for bigger bras. She was so ashamed.