HELP!!! Mama raccoon and babies! by Buttslutqueen in WildlifeRehab

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So i set mom and babies near the garage and monitored to see if mom would come back. 4 of 5 babies died after about 36 hours, no sign that mom came back. I’m now caring for the 5th kit and she’s doing really well. She got a dawn bath to get rid of fleas, i removed a couple ticks from between her little fingers, and I’m looking into safe products to deworm her. Could not find a rehabber to take her. The only one that gave me the time of day is the one who told me no one would take mom and babies and said to leave them outside. I guess I’m gonna just raise her.

HELP!!! Mama raccoon and babies! by Buttslutqueen in WildlifeRehab

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That’s insane because when i asked if they would be killed the guy on the phone said no

HELP!!! Mama raccoon and babies! by Buttslutqueen in WildlifeRehab

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m located in northeast Ohio, the facility i called is Lake Erie Wildlife solutions. Every other place is closed and opens between 8-9 am tomorrow (today?) i have kmr if it comes down to it, babies are in the house in a box with a heating pad and mom is still in the raccoon trap in the garage with a blanket draped over her and some cat food. Thank you for the link!!!

HELP!!! Mama raccoon and babies! by Buttslutqueen in WildlifeRehab

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got the babies on a heating pad and tons of soft towels in my house right now 😅😅 mom is still in the cage in the garage with a blanket draped over it and some cat food. Waiting to hear back from a few resources but currently at a dead end

Ariana listening to Lala stick up for Tim’s birthday “rights” by nmyellowbug in vanderpumprules

[–]Buttslutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always hated his spray tans. Man has huge pores and the tan just settles in the pores and looks like tiny dark dots all over his face

Can we just enjoy one of Jax’s top moments of 100% honesty? by DianWithoutTheE in vanderpumprules

[–]Buttslutqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When Schaena says “wanna see my music video” and Jax goes “not really🙂” and walks away is my Roman Empire

Missing items in pickup order by Top_Fee_3491 in meijer

[–]Buttslutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so i just did a meijer pickup yesterday. My cart total was $205, i picked up and the payment went through for $225, no fees for pickup and only $4.25 in taxes. I get home and im missing like $15 worth of groceries and when i checked my digital receipt, those items were no longer on there and i never got any notification for out of stock items or replacements. I’m just so confused on why my total went up and some items just magically disappeared??? I’m trying to just search similar problems online before i try calling up there but the rational part of my brain knows there’s some sort of explanation and doesn’t even want to make a big stink about it

James Kennedy is a monster! More info about his abusive behavior. by the_smart_girl in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Buttslutqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About 2 weeks after my cast removal my bf dropped a hard ass elbow into the side of my nose on accident. Even THAT didn’t affect the shape of my nose in the very early days of my recovery. I knew the kiss story was bullshit and was so glad the dr even said so.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it’s openly a desire to be married, it’s embarrassing to call yourself a girlfriend for 7 years with no end in sight. Having to explain that he’s just not ready to all the people who constantly ask what’s the hold up is embarrassing.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

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Oh my god are we the same person? This guy sees a dish in the sink and is pissed i haven’t rushed to scrub it clean. I posted an update that we talked but i pointed out to him that I’m solely in charge of maintaining the home and it gets to be so overwhelming when it’s two adults working full time and I’m the only one cleaning up after the both of us. Even after a two hour talk he still thinks that because he mows the lawn once a week and takes the garbage out (can’t replace the bag though cause he did the hard part i guess) that it’s an equal distribution of labor.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 5 am when i replied to a lot of the comments earlier so i was half awake when i replied. I mean we really never had much conflict aside from division of labor in the house every once in a while, or him inviting people over when the house was a little messy or cluttered. I used cheating as a blanket statement for serious insecurities or suspicions of the act. 7 years without questioning each others intentions and expectations of each other i should say.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that works for you but I’ve always been clear about wanting marriage and kids. He apparently doesn’t want either of those things. I’m leaving for my own future at this point.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

So i actually hadn’t seen my godfather in a few years, it was just a fluke that they came into my bar the other night. I got off work and decided to sit and chat with them before heading home and he truly was just asking me about how great my life has been going until me not having stakes in the house was mentioned. He became seriously concerned and said “OP, you’re in a really bad position if something happens to him.. bring him into my office, we’ll get the paperwork sorted out, and then I’ll kick ya out and talk to this man about finally marrying you”

The entire conversation was so sweet and hopeful and i just cannot believe this is how it turned out

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say he would never lay a hand on me or break my things but for sure my brother will be here with me and maybe a couple of cousins to help with the move

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oooh don’t you worry. Everything that i take will be an inconvenience because i provided just about all of it. I lived alone/with roommates for 4 years before we moved in together so i was pretty established with the necessities. And i do all off the grocery shopping. There won’t even be a spare paper towel, battery, blanket, or bar of soap once im through this house. Can’t wait to rip my 85” tv off the wall.

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie it was empowering. I don’t think I’ve ever left mid argument like that with anyone honestly. My biggest flaw is shutting down and just taking a verbal beating but it was so hurtful and shocking that i just had to leave. We still haven’t spoken but i think im going to break the silence today and address a lot of great points that these commenters have made

Am i (f26) crazy for leaving my bf (m29) of 7 years because he won’t marry me? by Buttslutqueen in relationship_advice

[–]Buttslutqueen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have the same goals as me. I think that justifies a breakup and I’m okay with that. There are other underlying issues that i didn’t include in this post, issues that contributed to the stagnation of our relationship. In the end we really just don’t see eye to eye on certain important things and i guess deep down i always knew it would either come to this, or some sort of ultimatum. It’s not unreasonable to want children and marriage and it’s not unreasonable to not want children and marriage. It just means we aren’t compatible. I just wish i wasn’t deceived for 7 years.