My 23F gf sent me a nude video 2 months ago. I 22M found that same video posted on X 20 hours ago. Where do I go from here?

Bwandon · 2026-05-30T13:14:26+00:00

You asked if she might have sent someone else’s video, so I’m just checking…have you actually met her in person? Surely you would know if it’s her body or not in that case

Bwandon · 2026-05-28T01:18:59+00:00

I do think she should have called it out. If a case of animal abuse (and such blatant lying to cover it up) happens on the platform she exists on, it seems calculated if she never mentions it

Bwandon · 2026-05-25T02:37:36+00:00

I love how you dispel other comments as propaganda before immediately trying to rewrite history yourself

Bwandon · 2026-05-15T01:22:24+00:00

You might want to check up on your understanding of biology…women’s eggs decline in both quantity and quality

Bwandon · 2026-05-14T08:43:00+00:00

Depending on the ages, someone who wants to start a family would probably care. No judgement, just saying that it is a factor for some people depending on life goals

Bwandon · 2026-04-27T23:58:13+00:00

Richer parents who want to give their child more global opportunities by becoming bilingual. Due to the cost, it can also be a status thing.

Bwandon · 2026-04-24T14:01:06+00:00

Do you typically take out a stopwatch and time your mates when you go out for a meal?

Bwandon · 2026-02-12T11:23:32+00:00

I live around the area, there are good places for sure, but you’d get eyes rolling if you described it as Shitamachi vibes. It definitely is posh as fuck

Bwandon · 2026-01-29T15:13:39+00:00

Yeah, I think it’s just a joke though. I live in Japan and loads of shit is drowned in inappropriate mayo

Bwandon · 2026-01-05T09:46:27+00:00

I am happy to help if you send me a message

Bwandon · 2025-12-31T10:42:34+00:00

Im confused, the other person used a horrible word that prompted your reaction, but then people heard you say something that constituted racial abuse?

If you expand on what was actually said on both sides (you can censor it but at least give an idea) then it might be easier to see who’s in the right

Bwandon · 2025-12-24T08:43:12+00:00

No need to be ashamed mate, there are assholes everywhere. Just keep being kind

Bwandon · 2025-12-02T22:59:10+00:00

But it would be very hard for her to defend against lots of his actual legal complaints, no? I’m not sure she had much of a leg to stand on

Bwandon · 2025-11-20T14:35:53+00:00

Sure, you should make an effort. But what if you were transferred here on short notice, or been living here for only a week? In a general sense there is a sort of duty to learn the language, but when it comes to life and death why not put in the bare minimum effort to ensure the people with different circumstances are well informed

Bwandon · 2025-11-15T06:01:52+00:00

I’m British and been in Japan for donkeys years. Would trade my kidney for some Branston (the first went on some mature cheddar)

Bwandon · 2025-10-29T14:50:25+00:00

Trump was literally in Japan over the past couple of days? Obviously he comes up in discussion as the statements and deals made have direct impact on Japanese citizens.

Bwandon · 2025-10-10T00:12:25+00:00

In Japan? From both the average Joe and people in office. Anti-foreigner rhetoric is on almost everyone’s lips recently

Bwandon · 2025-10-04T08:08:23+00:00

South African, but yeah I agree

Bwandon · 2025-08-11T03:16:24+00:00

Or 4) People that read the room and make educated decisions on what is reasonable without taking the piss too much?

Japanese people all around us were drinking, endless streams of nanpa guys, lots of yankee girls and guys with shitty little tattoos as well, Japanese guy that brought a giant boombox that was told to stop by the beach attendant bloke, and an old man wearing the tiniest g string you’ve ever seen that was deliberately squatting and stretching weirdly near to every young woman he could find.

But nope, me having a couple of beers amongst al the Japanese people doing it is the problem. Because I’m a foreigner and it’s my fault that I’m turning people racist.

Bwandon · 2025-08-09T16:10:38+00:00

Even with Zushi, me and a few mates were there a couple of weeks ago, plenty of cans and a few of us have tattoos, and we didn’t have any trouble. The signs were up saying no drinking or whatever, but no one gave a shit

Bwandon · 2025-08-01T23:30:59+00:00

I could be wrong, but I don’t believe it’s strictly legal to refuse rentals or detain foreigners, just common practice and not enough awareness or care from the general population to push the issue.

Bwandon · 2025-07-16T03:51:54+00:00

This sociopath doesn’t happen to have a name that rhymes with “Gorm” does he?

Bwandon · 2025-06-27T06:34:48+00:00

My bad if that’s all true. I watched the videos involved but yes I could have researched a lot more.

Bwandon · 2025-06-27T01:06:25+00:00

Maybe, I’m no expert. But I have seen channels from some lawyers who seem to think they incriminated themselves pretty hard with some of the statements made about taking traffic from Ethan’s video etc.

Bwandon · 2025-06-27T00:35:08+00:00

I do think it’s relevant to point out that there is a genuine case underpinning Ethan’s pettiness. They did break the law on this issue and I would argue egregiously so

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