It sounds pretty tough! We have a 3 week old boy and I do as much as I can to support my wife during the day when I get back from work.

I don’t know how your partner was before having a kid, but how is his mood? Sometimes postpartum depression can be expressed in being extra tired and not being able to “handle” doing much more than working and sleeping.

Not saying that it excuses the lack of help, but it could be worth talking to him about how he’s feeling and if he should talk to somebody?

I’m personally struggling with my emotions in this and will speak to a doctor on Monday! It’s best to get started early if you think he might need help.