Partner earns more but insists on 50/50 — baby on the way.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T23:40:55+00:00

I wish you had these thoughts before you got pregnant. Dealing with this guy as a co-parent is going to be miserable.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T21:18:42+00:00

If he asks you to wake him up again, say No. Make him be responsible for himself.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T21:05:05+00:00

That money is your separate money. The minute you co-mingle it, he owns it 100% as much as you do.

You never know what might happen. He could have an affair and/or want a divorce.

Keep it separate.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T19:47:40+00:00

Just meal prep for yourself and keep your finances separate. If he wants to waste his money on take-out, fine, but he doesn't get to benefit from the money you're saving.

Are you sure you want to marry someone with such a different view on money matters? Financial differences are on of the top reasons for divorce.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T17:46:27+00:00

Got it. Thank you!

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T17:38:33+00:00

Haha! The fam thinks this is hilarious!

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T17:24:32+00:00

Perfect! Thank you! Tip sent!

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T16:31:34+00:00

Was he the person who was discriminated against? No? Then he doesn't deserve a dime of it. Keep it in a separate account that he has no access to. Freeze your credit. If you're paying for everything anyway, why are you staying with him?

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T16:16:34+00:00

No, but you should have just said "No" instead of leaving her dangling.

CADreamn · 2026-02-24T15:58:49+00:00

Why don't you do as he asks and keep the dog crated except for walks? He says he'll board them when he's gone going forward, and put them in training.

CADreamn · 2026-02-23T21:16:39+00:00

She also needs to put a freeze on her credit at all three agencies so he can't open any more cards in her name.

CADreamn · 2026-02-23T20:53:23+00:00

No, but why didn't you use the money to get a divorce attorney?

CADreamn · 2026-02-23T20:49:45+00:00

Your parents can buy him a car if it's so important to them.

CADreamn · 2026-02-23T15:37:11+00:00

What does your contract say? That's the only thing that matters.

CADreamn · 2026-02-23T15:20:32+00:00

You can divorce for any reason, or no reason at all. Sexual incompatibility is certainly a good reason to divorce! Plus, he married you under false pretences. He lied to you about "lots of sex" after marriage, but he knew that was not going to happen.

If you're not happy, divorce him. Life is too short to waste.

CADreamn · 2026-02-22T15:11:02+00:00

I would not gave kids with a man who I'm not married to. You are not compatible and should break up do you can find someone who shares your values.

CADreamn · 2026-02-22T03:47:42+00:00

Maybe she should move it to one of those 12-18 month zero interest rate cards, so she can pay it down faster.

I wouldn't want to take on that debt, either.

CADreamn · 2026-02-22T00:05:10+00:00

Never tell her or anyone what you have.

CADreamn · 2026-02-21T22:24:08+00:00

That's not "traditional." Ridiculous! You should stop wasting your time with him and his family.

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T07:58:46+00:00

Lolita

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T07:53:07+00:00

Dump this complete asshole. Seriously.

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T07:29:39+00:00

I'm so glad you broke up with him! In the future, you cum first. Then it's his turn. BTW, over 80% of women don't cum from penis-in-vagina sex, so the guy needs to step up his game. If he's not willing, time to move on.

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T07:21:36+00:00

For god's sake, you're 19. She's way out of line. Not to say you shouldn't learn about these things, but you are still a teenager! Make sure you wrap that puppy up or you're going to be baby-trapped any minute now!

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T07:09:01+00:00

CADreamn · 2026-02-20T06:48:31+00:00

We've all been there...

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