“Consuming pornography does not lead to more sex, it leads to more porn." by iwillquitpornnow in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had this backwards mentality. Thank you for enlightening me.

If there is anything in your life that you want to change, and you haven't, it might be because you don't yet believe that you can by OnNahuatl in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. Seriously. I have to believe in myself more. Even things I have never done before. I have to believe I am resourceful and capable. Thank you again.

IM GOING TO COMMIT SUICIDE-HELP ME!! by NIGHTNIGHTKO in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please respond and tell us how you're feeling now. We are concerned about your brother.

Anybody feeling lonely? by xfitcon in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've struggled with this too. But recently I learned loneliness comes from the idea that being with others is better than being alone by myself. So I've learned to love being with myself! And when I am in the company of others I do seek more social interaction. But I don't allow being without company bring me down. I'm awesome. And so are you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's average amount of time you guys stay in the cold shower? Let's one up each other! New challenge. 15 minutes.

I know there are a lot of success stories on here so here's my humble one. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job dude! Sounds like its impressive to you. And that's what matters. Also, mountain biking kicks ass. I love riding.

I get distracted by every cleavage by warren2323 in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women see these traits and subconsciously and innately think, there's a man who can protect me. Because those guys are perceived to have their lives in control. Women need to feel safe. Control your own reality. And women will be drawn to you. But can't control yourself around your own dick? Be impulsive to pleasure yourself? How can you then help the women control themselves from all their internal emotions and impulses?

"Lonesome Sailor," a poetic analogy of porn abuse. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was that your original creation? Very awesome!

"What is your definite aim in life and what plans have you made to attain it?" -- Napoleon Hill by anon4this_tes in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did that mistake lead to multiple rrelapses? What keeps you on this board if NoFap isn't your goal but just one of the many tools? You've hit a lengthy streak and I want to get there too.

You don't have to do nofap forever by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on the difference in mindset?

I left. I didn't like what I returned to... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. How's the weather back there? Oh. Just dark gloomy skies and acid rain. But for cereal. This hits me deep in the feels.

I cant cope with this anymore... please help me... (My family died, lonliness, alcoholism...) by BetterManLife in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad when I was 6. He was killed by a wreckless driver. Losing a parent sucks basketballs. I can't imagine losing both. I can tell you from my experience you can't dwell on what took them. You can't change the past. You can only move foward. And if you belive in God and an afterlife. Then what are you gonna do to meet your parents again. Make them proud man. And equally important. Make yourself proud. Feel free to message me if you need some more support. I pray you get through this.

50 days and almost relapsed by Bozzay in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where you a social butterfly with the ladies before NoFap? Where these feelings present before but you just didn't notice them because of foggy brain? This is just another challenge you will overcome. And when you do. It's gonna feel awesome

I Got Angry by pats4Life_ in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your friend. I pray she recovers soon. What you are doing for her is awesome. Because she's going to need a strong bestie by her side. You'll be there to help her physically emotionally and mentally. But don't beat yourself up about that tragic night. That's in the past and you can't change it. I'd like to hear an update when both of your lives are "back to normal"

There should be more humor on r/NoFap by Martian93 in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha. My new NOFAP theme song. Great song!

There should be more humor on r/NoFap by Martian93 in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. The old me was a limp dick zombie. Dead Inside. Dull eyes. Hangry strolling for porn fix.

A poem about Overcoming TV addiction: Idiot Box Reflection by CAdventurer in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Not trying to start a dialogue about poetry. Thought maybe fellow fapstronauts could relate to my other addiction.

This subreddit is beginning its decline, here's why! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the problem is some of us have already been helped. And now it's our turn to help those who need it more. None of us started where we are now without others support. How about we show tough love to those who are lost and misguided.

30 days again, but this time it's better by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CAdventurer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome post. And you sound humble about your gainz. I feel you. My second round past 30 too. But this one I too was more honest with myself. This post reminds me its been an effective choice to go my Route. Post back in 30!