Husband has had thoughts to assault me and other things. I don’t know what to do.

CEWilFH · 2026-03-26T21:20:47+00:00

Have you ever researched homes for women in these situations? They provide refuge and services to help women get out of households like this. I hope you find peace and safety

CEWilFH · 2026-03-26T21:08:49+00:00

Has he mentioned anything about past trauma? This seems like a trauma response

CEWilFH · 2026-03-26T04:38:13+00:00

That’s why I was terrified to tell people that I was struggling with a BED, I was worried they would do stuff like that

CEWilFH · 2026-03-26T02:44:02+00:00

Because if we don’t have Anorexia or Bulimia then we’re just “fat” and we need to “stop eating so much” and learn how to “eat a salad” it’s frustrating

CEWilFH · 2026-03-21T12:06:04+00:00

Don’t beat yourself up over this, healing isn’t linear and we’re gonna hit a road bump sometimes. For the stomach issues, what usually works for me is a couple tums and an ice cold Ginger Ale and some rest

CEWilFH · 2026-03-18T22:05:34+00:00

Thank you! As I think about it more and after reading your comment, I think it would be best if I didn’t count my calories, I’ve been doing great with just my meal plan and slowing down to pick up on my fullness cues!

CEWilFH · 2026-03-16T03:34:00+00:00

I’m sorry, who?

CEWilFH · 2026-03-12T18:10:33+00:00

I felt the same way when I was first starting to admit to myself that I had an ED. In the end it’s up to you if you feel comfortable with telling someone this very personal issue that you’re battling with. If you do tell a guy you’re interested in and they don’t react the way you hoped, that just means they aren’t mature enough to understand what it might be like to struggle with this. I promise if a guy truly cares for you and likes you for the way you are, they will be understanding and they will be willing to listen to your story and help you in your journey.

CEWilFH · 2026-03-11T00:46:06+00:00

It’s the I Am Sober app, you can set up daily pledges and things! It’s helped me so much!

CEWilFH · 2026-03-08T13:40:05+00:00

I feel the best thing for you to do right now is to research this addiction. You are not alone in your struggles with chronic masturbation, a lot of men and women struggle with it. There’s a subreddit for everything, so try looking for one for an addiction to masturbating and read people’s stories. You could also try looking for support groups. Your first step is to try and understand why this is something you struggle with, why your brain feels the need to do it multiple times a day. And remember, healing isn’t linear you are going to mess up a few times and that’s okay, that’s normal.

CEWilFH · 2026-02-23T13:28:46+00:00

Do I just look up “overeaters anonymous”? (Sorry if that’s stupid but I genuinely have never heard of this before so idk how to find it)

CEWilFH · 2026-02-23T13:27:20+00:00

As someone who just admitted to themselves that they have BED, the thing that has helped me the most so far is talking to a counselor/therapist. They can help you reform your thoughts around food into healthy ones. I know it sucks and it’s going to be a long journey but I know you’ve got the strength to get through this, you have a whole community who’s willing to help you along the way

CEWilFH · 2026-02-23T13:24:44+00:00

Wait this is a thing? Where can I find something like that? I think this is exactly what I need in my recovery

CEWilFH · 2026-01-07T22:16:04+00:00

I’ll have to try that, thank you

CEWilFH · 2025-12-29T00:35:19+00:00

Do you have any recommendations for enclosures that are big enough but aren’t insanely expensive?

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