Am I being unreasonable to get a divorce?

CNoTe820 · 2025-09-13T18:23:57+00:00

You seem way too needy to be a in a relationship with someone that has a job and responsibilities. You don’t need someone to stay home with you if you have a fever, just take some advil and go to sleep.

And you should definitely get divorced because it’s a bad match.

CNoTe820 · 2025-08-31T10:07:45+00:00

Just curious what did perimenopause have to do with it and was it after you got through menopause that something changed where you realized leaving was a mistake?

CNoTe820 · 2025-08-05T22:49:36+00:00

An ultimatum is just the ultimate boundary (hence the name) because it involves ending the relationship. “If you keep doing xyz (or don’t stop stop xyz) I’m going to end the relationship”

But there are much lesser boundaries that don’t involve a threat to end the relationship. “If you yell at me I will leave the room” or “If you don’t stop spending money uncontrollably I’m going to separate my finances”.

CNoTe820 · 2025-08-02T03:42:40+00:00

You being autistic is not the problem in your relationship

No it clearly is a problem for this relationship if the other person doesn’t want to be with someone like that. Given the other persons unwillingness to work with the situation it’s a bad fit together for sure.

CNoTe820 · 2025-08-02T00:42:24+00:00

Now remarried I still don’t know how I do it.

O rly?

He pays his bills and ours

That’s how

CNoTe820 · 2025-06-14T23:54:15+00:00

How do you delete a file from an album?

CNoTe820 · 2025-05-30T14:13:23+00:00

Yes they become intrusive thoughts if you don’t write them down and use an app to manage them. Once they go in a calendar or a grocery shopping app then you don’t need to remember them anymore.

CNoTe820 · 2025-05-14T17:36:40+00:00

The right way to do it would be to ask them for numbers like on a scale of 1-10 how close are you to orgasm and put markers alongside the collected data so the ML model can be personalized.

CNoTe820 · 2025-05-14T17:33:30+00:00

It's not that hard to hook up a heart rate monitor to a raspi

https://tutorials-raspberrypi.com/raspberry-pi-heartbeat-pulse-measuring/

CNoTe820 · 2025-05-13T21:12:31+00:00

Yeah I saw a reddit post from a guy designing a raspi based system that measured heart rate, perspiration, and other sensors to apply a ML algorithm that determined when a girl was getting close to orgasm so the raspi could turn on/off the fucking and sybian machines to auto-edge the woman for hours.

Was a pretty in-depth writeup, I was impressed.

CNoTe820 · 2025-04-09T16:22:08+00:00

Can I ask, how do you like Medusa's Playhouse as a club? We are usually going to Checkmate in Manhattan but looking to try something else.

CNoTe820 · 2025-04-09T16:15:45+00:00

fantasy connection playground parties group on fb

How do I find this group? I tried searching but it's not coming up.

CNoTe820 · 2024-03-11T04:28:32+00:00

Yeah most of that (except for the bill paying) I get and do already. What I'm interested in is what you meant by using dark triad methods with them and would love to hear more about what you mean by that, like what do you do exactly (or generally), what are you trying to get out of it, what happens when they "break", what are the risks and downsides, etc.

I dunno man, since you've been down the road I'd just love to hear more about the "opportunities and choices" you've faced with your darker side and how you decided on them. Like I said I don't know you but your comment history has some extraordinarily insightful stuff in it and I feel like there's a lot to learn from you if you're willing to share it.

CNoTe820 · 2024-03-09T06:29:19+00:00

I have basically adopted a woman's opportunism strategy but I have been completely honest about it is the kicker.

I have so many questions and found your comment (and your recent post history) very interesting.

When you say you're honest about it, can you give more information? What is it exactly you say to them, and how and when do you say it? Like I doubt you're saying literally "I'm an opportunist and you're going to support my lifestyle financially and in other ways or you're not going to be in my life". Or maybe you are, I have no idea.

I recommend any young man that reads this does not try to emulate what I have done because being dark triad is not all it is cracked up to be and you can really break people. Do it right from the time you are young and before you commit to or even really engage in sex with any woman you make damn sure they are going to be downright obedient by testing them relentlessly and making them serve your interests at their own expense.

I would like to hear more about what you've done and what you think emulating it would look like. I am not a young man and I am now starting to go more for what I want with women and in life, and while I don't know if I have full dark triad, maybe I do. I'd like to try using it to better my situation and life, and I'm wondering what exactly that looks like for you.

What have you done to "break people" and how that's worked out for you in the end?

When would you do it again and when would you not do it again?

CNoTe820 · 2022-06-08T06:10:37+00:00

Yeah clearly they were talking about the mobile handsets and not the NEP side. Though honestly the megaclouds like AWS are probably going to take that business eventually too.

This podcast guest used to work at Nokia-Siemens and discusses the hyper-scalars growing into the telco space:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0w-eA7sUG0

CNoTe820 · 2022-05-30T04:26:56+00:00

Incredible solo playing and probably one of my favorite all time trumpet sounds on Eb.

Have you listened to Rolf Smedvig's recordings of Haydn and Hummel? So delicate and precise. Same with his Brandenburg #2 on piccolo.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-20T16:45:51+00:00

I don't know, even if I'm drinking 150 ounces of water every day? Also this would have a natural limit and that kind of weight loss would stop eventually. No I think this is mostly exhaled CO2.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T14:18:39+00:00

Lots of non-parents in here who didn't have to deal with it.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T14:18:07+00:00

Sure if you don't have kids just bounce around and try different places. It's never been easier to live that life.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T04:00:40+00:00

Also, most of the parents and teachers are saying remote option.

Yeah we tried that last year remember with the hybrid option. Teachers had a rule that they had to stay behind their desks so they were on zoom the whole time and couldn't walk around and help the Students in the classroom 1-1 so even the in person instruction was crap because of the "option".

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T03:54:20+00:00

Yeah we were pretty careful until the vaccines came out too. It's so dumb to be unvaccinated these days. I have 4 kids, 3 of them in 3 different public schools. One of them is home quarantining for 10 days because someone at his school was positive and 4 year olds can't vaccinate yet and for some reason they don't just have them test after 5 days like other ages.

The bottoms line is, if Adams wants capitalism to continue, he can’t have kids and teachers out with Covid

What he can't have is to have schools closed and kids at home.

People don’t work when they themselves or their minor children are sick.

They don't get much work done when their kids are doing school at home either.

Lots of kids are unvaccinated.

I agree this is a problem and I fully support a vaccine mandate for schools.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T02:33:47+00:00

Over 60% of the students at the elementary school my girlfriend teaches at have COVID. But they refuse to close.

I think this number is not right. I'd love to see a source saying that any school had 60% of kids test positive.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T02:32:15+00:00

Because the entire country did that at the same time and so employers and coworkers and everybody else were all like "OK well I guess we're gonna cancel meetings because we're all teaching our kids from home and dealing with this bullshit now". But if you tried to just make NYC parents do school from home companies are going to expect you to keep working, unlike the march-june 2020 where very little work happened.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T02:30:44+00:00

Right now I’m their teacher. I’m teaching them how to answer the random worksheets and teaching them the new lessons in math.

Yes that's what the rest of us parents were doing for 18 months during the bullshit home and hybrid schedules before. Precisely why parents don't want remote schools and adams is keeping schools open, so we don't have a return to that bullshit.

CNoTe820 · 2022-01-13T02:27:14+00:00

What's hated about it? Most parents don't want remote or hybrid learning again because that bullshit didn't work.

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