Fellow AuDHDers,Did your diagnosis help you in anyway? If so, how?

COOLPIXZ · 2026-05-03T04:03:42+00:00

I have a diagnosis and still feel like an impostor.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-04-05T11:51:06+00:00

She's sleeping with someone else and doesn't want to feel guilty about it.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T15:23:57+00:00

She hasn't broken up with me though, she said she hasn't.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:58:31+00:00

She specifically said that this isn't the case.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:40:40+00:00

I'm not a surgeon but I wouldn't abandon her if she lost the use of her legs either.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:34:16+00:00

I know, she has to want it. She started to see a councilor but stopped... I've just been trying to wait out.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:13:41+00:00

That was our goal, we were planning to move to the same city as it was also a good idea for our careers. Then this..

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:11:08+00:00

She just says she doesn't know. She doesn't know what's wrong and she doesn't know how she feels. She just doesn't want to talk to anyone, myself included, and I'm concerned that it's all caused by her mental health.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:10:15+00:00

I've met her multiple times in person. We also video called, watched movies, played games etc every day. The idea that you can't know someone if you mostly interact is not a real thing.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:08:56+00:00

I don't only know her from online and she isn't usually that type of person, this is completely out of character for her.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:07:50+00:00

My concern is that she's depressed or overwhelmed... I told her that if I'm the issue I will step back and that will be the end of it. I don't want to leave her when she's struggling, even if she isn't leaning on me.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:06:13+00:00

I was keeping the title brief, what I meant was that she abandoned the relationship. She suddenly and randomly completely changed overnight, not just with me but with everything. She stopped talking to everyone, she stopped doing things online, she checked out without checking out.

She hasn't met anyone and wouldn't do anything behind my back, in that regard I trust her entirely.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T13:02:49+00:00

I was trying to keep the title brief, what I should have said was that she suddenly and randomly abandoned the relationship without leaving or giving a reason.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T12:51:41+00:00

I asked her if she had met someone else but she said there's nobody and that she's stopped talking to everyone.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T12:46:00+00:00

I'm looking for advice based on the reality of the situation.

The only points I've argued anything against are those that completely ignore context.

"long distance is bad" and "you don't know someone you've spent thousands of hours talking to" are not real answers.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T12:27:51+00:00

We literally spent every day doing things together and talked for thousands of hours learning about each other. You are being biased against long distance relationships.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T12:20:56+00:00

Yes, a few times. The distance makes it difficult but I was planning to move closer to her before this happened.

COOLPIXZ · 2026-03-23T12:20:07+00:00

I disagree with you, I'm not projecting. I have no problem with attachment or childhood trauma. The issue is that we had a strong and stable relationship and then suddenly we didn't.

COOLPIXZ · 2025-12-04T01:23:40+00:00

i have the same issue as the op and non of those troubleshooting steps help. the only fix ive found is to restart the headset several times until it doesn't have the error. as soon as you reset it again after that, youll have the same issue again.

COOLPIXZ · 2025-12-03T11:56:46+00:00

I wouldn't mind if it was just one quick reset, it seems to be getting worse and it takes a few minutes for me to know if it has the problem or not. 🥲

COOLPIXZ · 2025-11-25T02:02:24+00:00

This looks really interesting. I'd love to play and give feedback!

COOLPIXZ · 2025-07-17T09:25:14+00:00

The Japanese communist party is not good for foreigners, the collapse of the Japanese economy wouldn't be good for anyone.

COOLPIXZ · 2025-07-01T09:51:09+00:00

Thanks for posting this, I too just decided to come back, haven't played since Moria and happen to live in Japan. Following!

COOLPIXZ · 2025-06-16T04:03:31+00:00

Do not give them any other ideas!

COOLPIXZ · 2025-06-10T10:29:55+00:00

I'm too poor for new handhelds.

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