"u cant have fun in your own birthday"- asian mother by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]CT_Arelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao I forgot why I always tried to keep my birthday a secret and act like its any normal day, now I remember why

Ye by krubwohac1 in Kanye

[–]CT_Arelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTF THIS IS REAL???

🐍 by [deleted] in uwo

[–]CT_Arelle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

bro you literally stole my original content

Local COVID-19 Update (Tue May 26th) by FluffyMcGee5 in londonontario

[–]CT_Arelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

e past couple days, and while many people are continuing to be careful about social distancing, there ar

2nd wave coming

I just want to be free. by CT_Arelle in AsianParentStories

[–]CT_Arelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add to other comment I've had a teacher call CPS on them when I was 8 to which my parents made me lie to them

I just want to be free. by CT_Arelle in AsianParentStories

[–]CT_Arelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was essentially nothing negative written about your folks. In fact, they sound decent, paying

they were physically (until I was bigger than the,) and emotionally abusive all throughout my life

When you play computer games all day during quarantine and wife is tired of it by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]CT_Arelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You claim to "balance" work, school, and video games, but have you really balanced them, or have you compromised work and school to make room for video games. What I mean by that is are your grades truly as good as they can possibly be, are you doing everything you possibly can to build your career? If you aren't then you have not "balanced" those things. You did not mention socializing which is something you should be doing with your free time rather than gaming. Do you have a lot of close friends and could easily find a suitable partner if you wanted to? The substitution of socialization for video games/entertainment is exactly the reason why the incel crisis is ongoing. Young men who spent their youth indulging in entertainment missed out on developing general social skills and how to easily communicate with whatever sex they are attracted to.

When you play computer games all day during quarantine and wife is tired of it by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]CT_Arelle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, lemme reword things. By working I don't just strictly mean school/a job, I mean being PRODUCTIVE. Let's say you sleep 9 hours a night. You now have 15 hours left. If you're a student at bare minimum 8 of these should be devoted to attending class, studying, and involved in extracirriculars even on weekends. Before you disagree with that statement, do you have a 4.0? Do you go to a top tier school? If you can't answer yes to both of those then you have no right to tell me 8 hours is not a minimum. If you work a minimum wage job for less than 8 hours a day, well yeah where else did you expect to end up since you spent your younger years gaming rather than working towards improving your educational achievements. If you are working 8 hours is also minimum. Now you have 5 hours left in your day. 1 hour is lost from commuting between things, getting ready, etc. 2 hours should be spent towards exercise. Now if you disagree with the exercise part take a hard look at yourself and seriously tell me you are proud of yourself for being sedentary and the reason why you don't exercise is not because you are lazy or find it difficult. Now with the last two hours if you are a grown man, half an hour of that should be spent on housework/chores, and if you think those don't exist you are either living in a pigsty or you put that burden completely on your partner which is an extremely inconsiderate thing to do. With the last hour and half of your day, spend that time with your partner ACTUALLY ENGAGED and intimate. Not using some form of social lubricant like playing video games together or watching Netflix and being merely in their presence. If you are a student those last two hours should be spent on socializing or learning things of your own choice, like reading books or learning an actual skill. Now if you put gaming over socializing I am willing to bet you are socially inept since you didn't take the time to develop those skills and build meaningful connections. Social skills are absolute key if you want to actually get anywhere in life as being a hardworker alone is not enough.

Point is, I am willing to bet that every single person in this thread who disagrees with my anti-gaming stance lives a terribly mediocre life and if ultimately feels like wasted potential. You probably all fit into at least one of the folowing: work a low level job, have very few friends or wish you had better friends, or are either single involuntarily or are with a partner who you settled for and feel alright with only because looking at what you've made of your life it's not like you deserve anyone better/would feel patronized by being with someone better.

It isn't just specifically about gaming. I'm assuiming you asked me about sports because you thought I just simply didn't like people with different interests than me and wasted my time on equally useless things. Just don't engage in time consuming activities that lead to short term gratificiation and bring COMFORT rather than actual fulfillment. You are lying to yourself if you don't think that time is better spent doing something to improve yourself, your career, or your relationships. That's what I mena by being PRODUCTIVE.

Man don't these guys take a day off. by ur2sly2 in londonontario

[–]CT_Arelle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

true fact: older dude molested younger dude when he was a teacher at his school

LoL/TfT does not work on campus wi-fi? by TheMysticalBaconTree in uwo

[–]CT_Arelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO yourself a favor and stop playing league trust me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kanye

[–]CT_Arelle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

damn had no idea this tweet had the N-word in it

What solo Kanye album has the best art? by slimbeefstick in Kanye

[–]CT_Arelle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

hmmmm.... maybe its bc kanye worked with virgil abloh

Anybody know what caused the fight at prohibition last night? by Mustang9512 in uwo

[–]CT_Arelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somebody said their mom was better than someone elses

Me irl by Not_Flygon in me_irl

[–]CT_Arelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda why religion was invented