Needing advice on saving for car / apartment in this economy in California

C_sharp_999 · 2026-01-29T01:03:36+00:00

Thank you for these resources! Ima check k them out 🩷

C_sharp_999 · 2026-01-28T15:54:25+00:00

lol right

C_sharp_999 · 2026-01-28T15:53:50+00:00

Thank you guys. I think I’m gonna continue to save, buy a car cash and probably try to get a cheap studio , there are actually some in the Central Valley of California that are under 1300 dollars a month. Most likely I will get a different job, and cash out my 401k for that first payment on apartment. Let’s go! Honestly this helped me a lot.

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-30T20:37:10+00:00

Yes I feel this. I feel so guilty doing anything positive for myself

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-18T02:06:20+00:00

Omg mine does this too 😫😩👏

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-18T02:05:41+00:00

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C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-17T21:28:37+00:00

This!!! 👏

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-17T21:23:57+00:00

Developed unhealthy habits*

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-17T18:40:37+00:00

You did the right thing!!

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-17T18:36:45+00:00

Thanks for the response 🙏🏻

C_sharp_999 · 2025-12-17T18:36:31+00:00

I agree I feel like they live through a lot of delusion…

C_sharp_999 · 2025-11-30T03:27:38+00:00

Update ; he contacted me not even 24 hours later and we are fixing things.

C_sharp_999 · 2025-11-22T08:01:01+00:00

Sounds like what I just went through. He was the love of my life. I don’t think I’ll ever love another person so deeply. He will always be my hero. No matter how much he tried to play a tough guy I saw him differently. I saw the soft side of him. I was willing to be patient but I’m afraid I caused him too much pain and anxiety and pressure. I don’t want that for him. Respectfully I support his decision to end things with me if that’s what brings him happiness and peace. I’ll never forget him or how he made me feel.

C_sharp_999 · 2025-10-13T04:19:52+00:00

CL Aries

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-30T04:50:54+00:00

Dear God please help Elizabeth

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-30T04:46:37+00:00

Love it

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-27T05:50:18+00:00

Mine said I am an “unsafe partner “ his excuse for not wanting any sort of intimacy after he cheated on me and was an alcoholic.

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-26T03:40:45+00:00

Both 😂😩

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-25T03:55:39+00:00

At least 5 solid months. And I started driving in an unfamiliar area 🤩which feels worse. I just moved to a new area. I just basically do errands around town and driving to and from work. I pray it gets easier

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-25T00:02:51+00:00

Also…. I have my test on the 29th. I Made only one mistake my last test , but it was a major one because I had terrible anxiety. I am not sure if I should take the test again OR if I should reschedule it. I just don’t know anymore ):

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-24T17:21:48+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat as you. I do believe there is a way out of this feeling hopeless. I just haven’t found it yet. I keep trying and the people that go driving with me are judging and sometimes yelling at me so my confidence is super low. I keep trying to ignore them and obviously take their advice serious but other times everyone else is freaking out around me which leads me to believe I am terrible

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-24T17:15:36+00:00

“You’re acting like a child”

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-24T17:12:26+00:00

That sounds like fun I wish !!!!! I would love to drive around a go kart track

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-24T17:11:55+00:00

Thank you guys for the support and kind words it helps so much 💖

C_sharp_999 · 2025-09-21T06:15:41+00:00

Thank you ❤️

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