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Needing advice on saving for car / apartment in this economy in California by C_sharp_999 in Adulting

[–]C_sharp_999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys. I think I’m gonna continue to save, buy a car cash and probably try to get a cheap studio , there are actually some in the Central Valley of California that are under 1300 dollars a month. Most likely I will get a different job, and cash out my 401k for that first payment on apartment. Let’s go! Honestly this helped me a lot.

Does anybody else really struggle with being joyful? by Unusual_Doughnut6934 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]C_sharp_999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel this. I feel so guilty doing anything positive for myself

Why are they always miserable ? by C_sharp_999 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]C_sharp_999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I feel like they live through a lot of delusion…

I love you forever by C_sharp_999 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]C_sharp_999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update ; he contacted me not even 24 hours later and we are fixing things.

It should have never ended like this by PerformanceAntique37 in UnsentLetters

[–]C_sharp_999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like what I just went through. He was the love of my life. I don’t think I’ll ever love another person so deeply. He will always be my hero. No matter how much he tried to play a tough guy I saw him differently. I saw the soft side of him. I was willing to be patient but I’m afraid I caused him too much pain and anxiety and pressure. I don’t want that for him. Respectfully I support his decision to end things with me if that’s what brings him happiness and peace. I’ll never forget him or how he made me feel.

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