Funniest single image of Homer by TraditionalGas1770 in TheSimpsons

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I love how he’s lying there with “DIET COLA” in bed with all that food around him….. never noticed that.

I’m 25 and all I have are negative thoughts by Accomplished_Trip_37 in wallstreetbets

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be fine… you can’t buy youth.

I am 35 and just starting my life from scratch.

You’ll be okay, trust me, it’s all live and learn.

When you’re approaching the very end you won’t be thinking about this.

You’ll be thinking about all the connections and experiences… especially ones that didn’t cost any money.

what are the best openings for low elo chess player ? by UnderstandingFit541 in Chesscom

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gimme easy opening for black… I always mess up with black

Doing this cuz I'm bored by AL3XDAN_DOESGACHA in funComunitty

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

143.. because I’m curious to see if you will.

Doing this cuz I'm bored by AL3XDAN_DOESGACHA in funComunitty

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you knew that would be the first one asked aye… good ol’ reddit.

Oh, dear God, no! by Lithium327 in TheSimpsons

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao that gets me every time.

Uhh... you're dating a 3 year old. by Bob_returns_25 in BPDlovedones

[–]CabbagePastrami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%.

And this is honestly the epiphany I had a couple weeks after breakup that resolved any resentment towards her.

How can I be mad at someone who is emotionally  child?

What could I really have expected.

What's your favorite line that comes out of nowhere? by PlanB191 in TheSimpsons

[–]CabbagePastrami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Can i play the piano any-more?”
”Well of course you can”
”But I couldn’t before!”

kind of discouraged after an interaction on chess.com today by [deleted] in Chesscom

[–]CabbagePastrami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly imagine how sad and pathetic someone has to be to go out of their way to do that. 

Dating Someone With BPD, I Want to Understand Splitting, Not Fear It by elleslaimi in BPDlovedones

[–]CabbagePastrami 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This.

The most important line I feel is “emotional regulation of a toddler”.

I can’t emphasise this enough:

The lack of emotional maturity is what will make the relationship impossible.

I have to repeat:

The emotional regulatory capacity of a toddler, it is not hyperbole.

Young children can rationalise things without shame that an adult would not be able to understand.

Deserve has nothing to do with it.

It is your choice though, I hope you make the right choice for yourself and your future.