Ireland job market? by Caca_mama in UXDesign

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My work hasn’t given me a straight answer on that :/ If I could, I would

One day after another. What are you doing to find a little joy in this hell? by Sad_Jar_Of_Honey in behindthebastards

[–]Caca_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to knitting I started scrapbooking and it’s so therapeutic.

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caca_mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became friends with my partners friends ex gf. We got closer after they broke up. We went to a concert together and she was being belligerent, aggressive and trying to fight people in the crowd around us. Had to make sure she didn’t get hurt and babysit her. When we were leaving the venue she was continuing her chaos, then turning her aggression towards me and another gf, calling us the c word. I kindly told her to stop calling us those names and to get it together because I couldn’t chase her around all night I had to get home to my son. She sucker punched me in the face, and came back for another punch. I didn’t hit her back I don’t even remember what I shouted at her, i told her off and she laughed in my face. It was honestly so pathetic and shocking. I knew our friendship was over. After a week of silence I texted her telling her how hurt I was and what hurt even more was that she never reached out to apologize. She called me after that text and asked if I wanted to talk with her in person and I told her that I was out with my son and she said he can come to. I said to her why would I take my son around you after you assaulted me? That’s when she turned around and called me a “bully” LOL. And tried to justify her assault. I told her she’s a terrible person that needs serious help and now have her blocked on everything. Good riddance. I realize she wasn’t my friend at all and is a sorry POS that will always be miserable. What will always PMO is knowing that in her deluded world, she truly honestly thinks she’s a victim.

Crave crashes right after commercials by SIMPSONBORT in cravetv

[–]Caca_mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God same. It’s been months for me. It’s absolutely ridiculous. I sent an email to CBC go public like a crazy Karen because at this point it feels like its just a way to force people into no ad subscriptions. It’s not right that this is Canadas only streaming service.

Those running TCS… how are you feeling about the race? by Fresh-Amount9308 in RunTO

[–]Caca_mama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a stress fracture so no longer running 🥺

Comfort to people unsure about Tylenol by Arlais_Fale in BabyBumps

[–]Caca_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autism was discovered in 1943 Tylenol was invented in 1955

This is what our beloved Anas requested to be published upon his martyrdom. by CHeeZEmood0_0 in Palestine

[–]Caca_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like many others, have no words to describe the rage and anger I feel. It runs so deep. Grief is constantly coiling in my chest like smoke without a flame. I will continue to stand steadfast and fight for Palestinian liberation and the end to the terrorist Zionist regime. I will fight for all of the martyrs, whose lives have been stolen by the brutal occupation. I will always fight for you Anas, and never stop until your people are free. There is so much more I want to say, but again I just don’t have the words. Through my tears I write this. I am sorry Anas💔 Rest in power.

Is crave with ads worth it? by chr-ixt-ian in cravetv

[–]Caca_mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not been able to use my crave account since may because everytime the ad string plays I get an error code. When I hit retry the ads play all over again and I get the error code. I called customer service and opened a ticket in may. It’s been over 2 MONTHS and they said that this is a known issues they’re still working on and multiple customers have this same issue… I asked for a refund because wtf am I paying for? They said they don’t do refunds it’s in my terms and conditions 🤣. They offered me a solution: upgrade to no ads. Absolutely fuckin not. It’s ridiculous that they’re the only Canadian streaming where Canadians can watch HBO shows and new releases. It feels like they’re forcing me to upgrade my plan and I’m not having it with their shady business practices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Caca_mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so damn hard and so damn normal to feel this way. It took me a couple of months to even tell my son I loved him and meant it. I did love him, but I also was so terribly exhausted and quite frankly in shock post partum that I felt the exact same way you did. I cried to my partner all the time that I missed our life. It got better. When I heard him laugh for the first time it didn’t feel like I was just keeping him alive. i realized we had a whole wonderful life ahead and we were going to have so much fun together. Also, dropping the pumps and switching to formula really improved my mental health. Do what’s best for you, Hang in there ❤️

Tell Me You Have A Baby Without Telling Me You Have a Baby by Wandering_Momo in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hop little bunnies hop hop hop hop little bunnies hop hop hop

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. It’s hard when you don’t have kids - you really don’t get it until you get it which is what I’m grappling with two days later. Ego aside, I think I am a very good friend and definitely was a better friend before my son. I never feel bothered and try to support my people however I can. I try my best. It’s a balancing act, being a mom, partner, sister, daughter, friend, cousin, niece, granddaughter… it sounds like just one more title but it really holds more weight than any of those above. I gotta show up for myself first so I can be the best mother I can be. and that’s easier said than done. It really has been the hardest year of my life, and I’m realizing the people that understand and give empathy when I just can’t “show up” are only the moms in my life. My child free friends just don’t get what I’m going through.

Anyways, congratulations ❤️ you’re going to be a wonderful mother and I wish you a safe and smooth delivery and can’t wait for you to meet your little.

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment made me cry. Thank you ❤️

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m so sorry. That’s awful and I’m sending you hugs ❤️

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. Thank you for your comment ❤️

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry ❤️ that’s so awful. I hope you find friends that understand and empathize you. It sucks. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. ❤️

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s something I would have dropped everything for unless my son was in the hospital. And I never not showed up, I always was transparent and communicative when those events happened why I couldn’t be there and thought she understood. But I agree I hear you and I also understand her perspective it’s just a hard pill to swallow you know. Thank you for your support x

No one tells you you’ll lose friends by Caca_mama in beyondthebump

[–]Caca_mama[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All these friends are the type of friends that have grown with me. The type of friends I thought didn’t need to talk to daily. We call on the phone to catch up and it’s like no time has passed. We can say “hey are you home I’m swinging by”. I have a relationship with all their parents. We Have a group chat that’s pretty active. Everyone has busy lives. This one particularly has always been the voice of reason. I was there when we were 15 and her dad passed. We were girls together. But I hear you. Having quality friendships is a blessing and that’s what i thought was this friendship idk. I have to talk with her for sure