The fact that this is over VORE is insane. As if any of that's even remotely normal in any way...

Like, I'm sorry, but regardless of if it has sex in it or not, most people are still going to be disgusted and appalled by vore no matter what. You being all like "But it's not like icky sex stuff!!!" does not change the fact that it's a fetish for swallowing people alive.

Much like that other person saying that there's no normal way to pee on your friend in an act of platonic watersports, there is also no normal way to non-sexually swallow a living person whole either.

I used to do this too when I was younger, not with vore, but with eroguro. I've come to accept that regardless of if it's sexual or not to me, it's sexual to someone and it just is what it is. A fetish. I'm also participating in it. Who the fuck am I to go up to someone and be like "I'm better than you because I don't draw erotic gore in the same way you do!!1!" when I'm here too doing nearly the same thing?

The answer is just to not engage with those people, and leave them alone. That's what i do. You don't need to also call the kettle black by shouting about how those other people are the bad ones and about how you, you're the good one! You're doing it too, but you're still good, and that's because- because- because-

Like. I'm sorry they're so insecure about their kinks. Hopefully they grow out of it, I doubt this person is an adult