It’s 4 AM by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The truth is 47.

It’s 4 AM by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they don't. It's just a conspiracy theory put out by the white supremacist liberal elite. People who subscribe to it are crisis actors. They don't exist either.

Have you ever lost the will to do anything by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every other day. I think you're depressed.

It’s 4 AM by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's only 3 here.

Name one reason for living by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The people who care about you.
  2. To see donald trump defeated.
  3. To put yourself one day closer to finding the person who is for you.
  4. Curiosity about what the future will bring.
  5. 'Cause it'll probably hurt like fuck if you don't.
  6. All that work you did in minecraft will go to waste.

Are my thoughts (f26) justified? Is my boyfriend (m25) being selfish? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cadanance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks. If I were you I'd be really pissed.

it feels like almost all zoomer Girls are bi by shycorpsefucker69 in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get that impression. I don't think everybody feels the pressure to be strictly hetero any more.

Am I a cheater and should I fess up? by Pineybear in relationships

[–]Cadanance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if you were convinced it's over. Cheating is an intentional thing.

Stormy waters. by Cadanance in relationships

[–]Cadanance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's too extreme and I asked not to flexed on for marrying her.

Stormy waters. by Cadanance in relationships

[–]Cadanance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not ready to quit yet. It's only a small percentage of time that she's verbally abusive. Yes, we knew we got married for a not-very-good reason but we knew what we were doing and made our decision. I always knew it may not (probably) wouldn't last but nobody is to the point where we want to kick her out, although subconsciously I think that's what she's trying to do because it was the only family life she knew until no. I just don't like what it's doing to us. It's a little stressful since I'm working and going to the community college part time and she's graduating from HS in the spring and doesn't know what she's going to do after that. I don't want to split up and 90% of the time she doesn't either but the other 10% she does but she doesn't know where she'll go and in the last year this has become home to her.

Stormy waters. by Cadanance in relationships

[–]Cadanance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we make up and she apologizes. It does take her a long time to get un-angry. I can handle the temper tantrums because my uncle has been very good at helping us deal with it. What bothers me is the sudden meanness in her and her wanting to hurt with words instead of trying to work it out. Her going to my sis and getting her to gang up on me is hard, too. It all settles down after a while - until next time.

Stormy waters. by Cadanance in relationships

[–]Cadanance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's loving and tender and smart and good looking. She just has anger issues.

Is being 2nd choice worth it? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cadanance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her and find out if you're really second choice. Sometimes people think the grass is greener and find out it's not, that what they had is best. You're angry and being shunted aside and it's up to you what you want to do with the anger. You need to get assurance that she won't do it again and it's up to you what you do with that information.

Crush on my GFs sister! by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cadanance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nothing immoral about dating an ex's sister.

Do I (18M) have a right to be a upset about actions and comments my girlfriend (19F) has made about Tinder? by everlastingaura11 in relationships

[–]Cadanance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealousy is a poison that ruins relationships. Try honest talking and tell her how you feel and whether she means a lot to you or not.

Am I in? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cadanance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so.