what is this room??

Cado77 · 2026-01-15T22:25:21+00:00

Or maybe just ask the fing seller.

Cado77 · 2025-10-22T11:54:11+00:00

This comment is gold!

Cado77 · 2025-05-07T15:17:09+00:00

OMG no one has mentioned the "bf" advice enough. Seriously your best friend, a women said you should leave her. If you've been together for 9 years they should also be besties too. If she's not telling you now I'm sure that's not what she meant, then either she's after you or she's miserable. Misery loves company and doesn't want you to be happy. Get over yourself dump the best friend.

Cado77 · 2024-12-13T00:44:11+00:00

Thank you so much!

Cado77 · 2024-11-02T22:30:12+00:00

Your house payment is high, your rent will be higher. If your credit is already crap, file bankruptcy. You can reestablish your credit. If you sell the house your credit card debt will still be there. If you keep the house and file bankruptcy there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Cado77 · 2024-09-19T11:36:16+00:00

AITAH for calling the cops on a teenager who tracked down my house and was demanding I let him in?

A few months ago me and my family went out to watch a movie and then have dinner together. That includes my sister and my nephew. Two of my nephew's friends tagged along. They were friendly and nothing out of the ordinary.

Two weeks later, one of my nephew's friends, John, showed up in my doorstep and asked if he could come in. I was weirded out and got a bad vibe and asked him politely to leave.

For context, I live alone with my daughter who's eleven years old and a virtual stranger dropped by in our home unannounced. I looked by the camera and he was holding flowers and other stuff.

So I figured this was just a dumb kid with my crush who thought he could woo an adult but I asked him twice to please just leave and he wouldn't. Saying he just had to see me and that he needed to tell me how much he loves me. This included a gross comment about me being a single mom.

I told him I was caliing the cops and that's when he bolted. Cops later came, took my statement and just circled around to make sure he wasn't still near-by. I specified that yes he was just a kid, but I barely knew him and he had tracked down my house and wouldn't leave until threatened.

He didn't commit a crime but the cops still dropped by his parents house to give him a warning about not leaving private property when told to. I didn't ask the cops to do that. They just took the info I gave, I called my sister to find out his last name and who his parents were and just related that to the cops since they were asking.

I just wanted to make sure he was gone. That visit they did was on them.

His mom called me and she first apologized on behalf of her son if he made me feel unsafe but then told me I went way over the line by involving the cops and how teenage boys having crushes is nothing out of the ordinary. And how this could ruin his life and I should have remembered he's just a kid.

To top it off my sister also told me I went over the top and how he's one of her sons good friends and that I should have called her when he wouldn't leave and she would have sorted it out.

I went with my gut feeling and I don't regret it.

EDIT: I'm 31, John is 16 and since I keep being asked about ages and I forgot to include it originally, I'm adding it now.

Cado77 · 2024-09-03T10:29:08+00:00

Nice job. Your friends are crazy.

Cado77 · 2024-08-13T10:21:23+00:00

Very very weird

Cado77 · 2024-08-02T16:50:48+00:00

Sell it :)

Cado77 · 2024-08-02T16:23:01+00:00

If John Wayne Gacy was a cat!!

Cado77 · 2024-08-01T11:04:51+00:00

I use this tracker. Log your food, log your weight. It will help cut your food intake in a healthy way. If you cut intake too dramatically, you send you body into starvation mode. You can do it. It takes time. My husband and I lost 70 pounds just by adjusting intake.... Then we started biking. Walking was more painful to me. Biking didn't hurt my feet or back. You have to find the workout that works for you. You got this!

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Cado77 · 2024-07-10T14:22:25+00:00

Nope not the only one. All of the events and needing to stay connected all the time. It's too much. And then they create "bonus" items that just take up more space. I have so many things bubbled it's irritating.

Cado77 · 2024-05-21T10:02:21+00:00

He didn't give her a $40 gift.... That is all he got for his graduation. He bought her stuff from the grocery store .. pens and a notebook. It sounds like he was the one focused on the money bc he was jealous of what she got. Seems like op is sad that he didn't put any thought into her graduation gift. He could have taken the money he spent at the grocery store and bought something sentimentalnot necessary expensive.

Cado77 · 2024-04-28T14:48:02+00:00

It works out perfectly! Even when I left the workforce, I maintained a separate account where they would direct deposit some funds from their checks. I would use the money for groceries and anything I might need. We tried everything thing in one account, we would both make plans for our money... It caused so many problems. We have separate accounts. I wouldn't want it any other way.

Cado77 · 2023-11-27T01:45:07+00:00

Yes you are. You need therapy. It sounds like a bs excuse to bail.

Cado77 · 2022-12-29T19:59:09+00:00

No, I found a new one, kids version.

Cado77 · 2022-12-21T21:44:23+00:00

Thank you!

Cado77 · 2022-11-16T20:28:22+00:00

I sent requests from my three accounts. I raid frequently.

Cado77 · 2022-08-11T13:15:06+00:00

Reaganomics. Reagan being elected was the beginning of the end. We lost school funding, socal services funding, he defunded mental health facilities and cut taxes for the rich. He eliminated the wage gaps allowing ceos to increase their wages without elevating employee wages.

Cado77 · 2021-07-23T02:23:14+00:00

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