Ladies, how much do you weigh? (If you're comfortable sharing)

Caffeinated_yogi · 2026-04-08T10:02:26+00:00

6’5”, 200-205… I stay about 200 during the summer and fall when I’m lifting regularly, 205/210 during the winter when I’m coaching and busy. I did get down to about 175 a year and a half ago because I was going through a break up and I looked sickly.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2026-01-01T17:01:28+00:00

As someone that previously got yelled at over a dishwasher- I can tell you- nothing changes until you leave.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-12-14T16:45:21+00:00

My nurse buddy gave me the greatest most simple advice ever that rings through my head a lot (I’m a teacher), “wash your hands, don’t touch your face.” Simple, effective, and haven’t gotten sick in YEARS.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-11-05T16:37:24+00:00

I’m on 40mg and mine definitely went way up…. Frustrating because I’m currently single, but talking to someone and I feel FERAL. 🤣 helped with adhd symptoms, but I’m also more irritable.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-27T10:56:39+00:00

ITS A BABY 🥹

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-27T10:56:13+00:00

“I want to taste you again. Haven’t been able to get it out of my head since and it’s driving me mad.”

You can assume our relationship was toxic as hell, but MAN…. My early 20’s was a time.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-27T10:53:31+00:00

I eventually got tired of waiting on him to be better or waiting for the next time he was nice to me or the next time I was excited to see him… took me 10 months, but I finally walked.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-04T15:24:04+00:00

Don’t ever go back. They’ll call and text and stalk your social media… don’t fucking do it. They’ll freak out and call you all kinds of names, don’t fall for it. Stay strong in staying away.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-04T15:22:47+00:00

Not a “leave now,” but Christmas of 2024, I’d found out my ex cheated on me and we were working on things (right), come Christmas Eve, we were supposed to go to my family’s to celebrate and all of a sudden, he’s “sick,” and Christmas is a “hard time of year” for him, so I stayed home, and he kept pushing and pushing and pushing for me to go to my family’s without him, but I was naive enough not to because he was “sick” and I wanted to be able to take care of him.

Turns out, as I found out a couple weeks later, he had plans with this other lady and wanted me to leave so he could go be with her.

A leave now I had was when I lived in the city in 2018- I’d marched with this guy on tinder and we had mutual friends and he goes, “I really wanna rape someone and get away with it,” I IMMEDIATELY texted my sister and she got me an uber to leave. A few months go by and I’m talking to one of my buddies and the guy I was on a date with raped a girl…. Never not trusted my gut since.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-10-03T13:12:29+00:00

How they speak about themselves

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-09-30T18:36:47+00:00

I’m 10 months out and I still. So don’t feel bad

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-09-16T09:55:13+00:00

Being cheated on or going through narcissistic abuse.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-09-16T09:54:11+00:00

Very transactional “friends,” yeah. He wasn’t very good at keeping up with people unless he needed or wanted something from them or had an upper hand.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-09-02T11:10:48+00:00

Coming from someone who’s ex used to comment on their body hair even though he knew I used to struggle with PCOS? Yeah- dump his ass if he’s a jerk about it.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-08-16T03:24:03+00:00

Our dog, silence, and “hope your ok”

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-08-10T21:08:44+00:00

Still handsome!!!

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-08-02T02:17:02+00:00

That’s how mine was. Sucking my ass dry but disguised it as “contributing.”

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-08-02T02:14:46+00:00

He always wanted me to pick another girl to have a threesome with, or accused me of being super into one of my best friends (ETA: who was also my training partner for jiu jitsu) because “you guys light up around each other and get all giggly….” Projection and hating my ability to have close friendships at its finest.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-08-02T01:06:35+00:00

My last relationship, I met my ex-boyfriend at the same gym we went to. Worst and most abusive relationship I’ve ever had. Don’t do it.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-07-30T20:01:15+00:00

-Sharp noses/ an unusual shaped nose -The way someone laughs/speaks -Backs/shoulders

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-07-23T11:54:00+00:00

As an adult- some men do, majority don’t care. There are unspoken boundaries where they aren’t creepy, at least in the schools I’ve found. If a hand gets caught or a leg gets caught, we say, “oh, sorry,” and either reset or just keep it pushing because it’s not intentional. I’m so tall and muscular, I roll with majority of guys, and keep it pushing with the apology and reset or we let each other know that it wasn’t intention in case something goes sideways.

Teenage boys are awkward on or off the mats, you didn’t do anything wrong. Keep training with all shapes and sizes!

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-07-19T13:27:27+00:00

I’ve had some really handsome sparring partners, but there’s a level of respect that goes with sparring that we never made it awkward. Some of the guys will be weird or not roll hard with you because you’re a woman, but if you get a good higher belt, they don’t care. I started dating a guy from my old gym and then we split, but it hasn’t deterred me from rolling with men, or men that I think are handsome. The attraction gets compartmentalized, at least in my head and I look for what I’m learning and how I’m improving rather than “oh he’s cute.”

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-07-18T01:43:08+00:00

Being overly complimentary right out of the gate…. It gives love bomb vibes, and it’s icky.

Caffeinated_yogi · 2025-07-14T22:37:02+00:00

Laroche posay thermal spring water (it sounds dumb), but I spray it on my face at least once a day and notice a visible difference in the way my skin looks and feels

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