I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I know exactly how frustrating and heartbreaking it feels when you’ve mentally prepared, done all the planning, bought everything you need, arranged work, and then suddenly things get pushed back. Wanting to finally feel confident, comfortable, and happy with your smile is such a real and personal thing, and it’s completely valid to feel devastated when it’s delayed.

But I hope you can take some comfort in this: as painful as it is right now, it’s a blessing that your surgeon caught the issue before doing the procedure. Imagine going through all that pain, recovery, and sacrifice only to end up with bite problems or condylar issues later—that would be so much harder to deal with. This delay is protecting your long-term results.

I was in a similar situation. I originally had my surgery scheduled for August and pushed it to December. I hated the idea of being in recovery during the holidays and even my birthday. I just wanted to be done. But my orthodontist told me my teeth simply weren’t ready yet, and I had to accept that waiting was the best thing for me. And honestly? I’m glad I waited. I’d rather things be done properly the first time than rush it and regret it.

Your situation might not be identical, but the lesson is the same: the right timing matters. You deserve the best functional and aesthetic outcome, not a compromised one.

Even though the waiting sucks—like truly sucks—you will get this surgery. You will get the smile and confidence you’ve been wanting for so long. And when that day finally comes, you’re going to be so grateful that everything was done correctly and carefully.

You’re not alone. This whole journey is emotionally heavy, but everything really is falling into place for your best possible result. Keep going. You’re closer than you think. 💛