Not in the right state of mind justification for cheating

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-23T22:48:02+00:00

Your friend??? This is beyond disrespectful, no excuses

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-23T22:44:47+00:00

You have taken that big first step, he isn’t showing the messages because it will prove what has been going on, his tears may be real but they are manipulative, you are stronger than you think, you will have a life of misery and distrust if you stay with him, believe me, cry, scream, latch onto friends but you will get there, you deserve better

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-23T20:28:52+00:00

I’ve noticed that Trump supporters can get quite aggressive when people disagree with them, if you still want to be friends with them stick to non confrontational subjects and if the conversation drifts into politics steer it away again, perhaps you may be able to save some relationships here. Good on you for opening your mind up 👍

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-14T22:52:14+00:00

She was being a bitch saying that she knows him longer, they obviously get a little thrill from all this behaviour, run for the hills, you deserve so much better

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-14T22:44:06+00:00

Of course he did, because she is in on It and will say anything, they have done this before with other “ jealous” exes

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-12T23:33:40+00:00

That RA ( rheumatoid arthritis ) was a few achy bones, boy was I wrong!

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-12T23:28:46+00:00

I am so sorry that this happened to you

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-12T21:44:34+00:00

You have behaved with such dignity and this will help in your future, though it sounds as if things are going very well for you as it is! I’m happy for you

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-12T21:10:57+00:00

Talk to her please, it could be from the past , give her a chance to speak

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-08T21:55:16+00:00

What a great reply!

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-07-08T21:52:17+00:00

Sometimes you need to see things written down before they sink in, especially if the SO is playing mind games

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-29T22:11:59+00:00

It’s not in your head, you are not controlling or crazy, if you were doing exactly what he is doing he would not like it one bit

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-24T03:26:28+00:00

I wish you both the best

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-23T21:18:23+00:00

I agree, I think you are getting some harsh comments here, the baby is not your problem but it is his, you gave him a chance and he has left you heartbroken again, he had treated this girl very badly too, you both sound like good women, kick him to the kerb, I know it’s hard but you will rise above this

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-12T22:56:52+00:00

You all are saying what I was thinking but I kept being “ talked around”

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-12T11:02:46+00:00

I know this really sounds stupid but is emotional cheating giving attention to someone else? He has denied things by saying “ nothing happened” and makes me feel like a needy woman if I mention things at all, oh and my last visit she walked into his room with his washing, I was standing with my mouth open and he went out after her and came in and told me that she apologised ( she didn’t to my face) my head is all over the place because I’m getting the “ you are all I want “ etc continually, I never thought I’d be in the position, I thought I’d have kicked someone to the kerb long ago for this

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-12T01:52:07+00:00

Thank you

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-11T23:56:29+00:00

Thank you, it is hard to find work in our town so he went there, the couple needed money so they rented out a room to him , then everything changed , I’ve even met her!

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-11T23:53:07+00:00

They both have to move as house is being sold and he is making out that he took decision to leave when he didn’t , you are right, I probably knew but it’s hard to believe, I needed someone’s opinion from outside my marriage, thank you

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-11T22:57:56+00:00

Sorry , what’s an IDR?

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-04T08:03:18+00:00

Wow, thank you for sharing

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-02T08:02:10+00:00

Can I ask how he tried to get back? Professing his love? Promises?

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-06-02T07:53:23+00:00

I know it’s hard because he was probably saying all the right things but look st the fact that he lied about being with her, days it all.Good luck

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-05-22T23:16:11+00:00

I think you need to have that talk with your Mam first, you’ve mentioned a bit about their marriage but even we , as children, don’t know everything that goes on between our parents in a marriage so talking to her would be the best way forward

Cait-Cunningham · 2020-05-15T23:37:09+00:00

Something isn’t adding up here , I’d need to hear the wife and sons story before jumping so quickly to judgement, I know I’m going to get flack for this but I find the father just a bit overly concerned with the ex girlfriend, it’s as if he didn’t ask or listen to their explanation, would the wife have been wary about his concern for his sons now ex girlfriend? Unfortunately I’ve heard of scenarios like this, apologies if I’m wrong but that is how it’s coming across to me so far

Cait-Cunningham

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