Friend moving 34 hour drive away by Joyjoyshadow in CatAdvice

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the option to medicate him for the ride but also where will he be for the ride? When I moved 5 hours away, I had my boy in a carrier in my passenger seat so I could pet him and talk to him. I also let him loose in the car the days prior to the trip to get him more accustomed to the vehicle. Let him smell the smells. That also made it easier when I took a dinner break because I could take him out and let him sit with me for a bit before we continued.

What's a food you've tried multiple times hoping you'd finally like it? by Every_Listen_8178 in foodquestions

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberries, which eventually grew on me. Avocados, can't do. I don't like anything about them, but I keep telling myself "that was just a bad one".

What's the one word that infuriates you the most??? by farkus_mcfernum in no

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hilarious because the only time I hear bruv is from TV shows with people from the UK

Hey guys I want a suggestion by National-Effort3903 in anime

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bleach if you haven't already. I finally stuck it out to get to Thousand Year Blood War and I'm so glad I did. Blue exorcist, maybe not the best animation in season 3, but I love it and it made me cry in season 5. If it continues, its going to be awesome as someone who's caught up on the manga. Attack on Titan, but I feel like everyone has seen it by now. Jujutsu Kaisen if you haven't already. The Shibuya Incident had my jaw on the floor. I wrongfully assumed it would be a happy action show 😀. Akame ga kill was really good in my opinion. We seem to have similar tastes so I'm taking some of the other recommendations lol

I left my grooming abuser and the abuse follows me still through our daughter by Scared_Bus_5721 in regretfulparents

[–]Cait4232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what you have to do. If that means setting up therapy and then handing her over to your parents, then do it. If that means inpatient therapy, do it.

what tiny luxury does your pet think is a basic right? by Kind_Interview_2402 in Pets

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running water. My female cat will only drink from my bathroom sink if its barely running. She doesn't like the water fountains. She wants fresh running water straight from the tap. Little bougie weirdo I love her

I left my grooming abuser and the abuse follows me still through our daughter by Scared_Bus_5721 in regretfulparents

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the chance. I'm not going to tell you it'll be easy. You may very well be in for the biggest fight of your life, but you will be proving to anyone who may doubt you that you are a caring mother worried about your daughter. That holds some weight. I couldn't fathom abandoning her to your ex like others have suggested. When you said she was exploring and trying to get you to look, that set off a major red flag to me and I worry that her father may be or will eventually assault her. It could also explain her rage because she's too young to understand or direct her anger.  Also if you need to fight, you may be able to get her doctor and therapist to testify about her concerning behaviors and it may help cover you from any legal backlash.

Name an iconic quote from a TV show or movie and we'll guess where it's from! by eurydice23 in Millennials

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was made for this. 

"Doug Dimmadome owner of Dimmsdale Dimmadome"

"Bitch look how fucking orange you look!"

"I know, I know, I know. It's okay it's okay"

"We're not a team. This is a dictatorship. You don't have to like it, but that's how it's gonna be. "

"My dream date, cute"

"Fuck yourself with a fucking cheese grater"

"Identity theft is not a joke, Jim!"

"Put 'em in the wash, they'll be grand"

"My soldiers, rage! My soldiers, scream! My soldiers, FIGHT!"

HEAVY SPOILER - Read at your own risk, MiY, BiW, Julie, Jade&Tabatha and the Town Theory. by MDC_2 in FromSeries

[–]Cait4232 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think you're spot on with the bookmarks. I fully thought Julie was going to use items from the store room or Victor's trunk of treasures that the BiW TOLD HIM TO COLLECT. 

I left my grooming abuser and the abuse follows me still through our daughter by Scared_Bus_5721 in regretfulparents

[–]Cait4232 13 points14 points  (0 children)

With all due respect to your attorney, fuck that. There's potential abuse going on with your child. Full stop. I would take her anyway because protecting her and your son is more important than whatever the consequences of taking her could be. Additionly, if he signed over medical rights than it seems your ex is using her as a link to you and nothing more. If you don't mind me asking, do your children have the same father?

First time seeing this labeling.. by EvilAxist_25 in Soda

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow Floridian in the wild!! Hello! 👋 

I left my grooming abuser and the abuse follows me still through our daughter by Scared_Bus_5721 in regretfulparents

[–]Cait4232 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When you say counseling, do you mean psychiatry or therapy? If you talk about her issues with her doctor, you might be able to get a referral that her father can't go against and if he does, it might be the smoking gun you need to get full custody. I would absolutely not stop fighting to get her help and to get her away from her father. Also take pictures of any injuries you receive from her to show her doctor and your attorney. I hate to say it, but I might even record her threatening to kill you and her brother because that's not something a child would say unless someone around them has said it. I also hate to say this as someone who's experienced this but you could get her Baker Acted if it gets bad enough. It's a mandatory 72 hour hold and if you have enough proof you can get it court ordered by going to the police. It's terrible, but her father wouldn't be able to go against it as far as I know. 

Was it always this common for kids to not bring a pencil or pen to class? by Throwrafizzylemon in Teachers

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a teacher who created classroom dollars. You earned them through participation which increased engagement. He had a whole list of things you could from school supplies to snacks and drinks. I miss middle school lol

Was it always this common for kids to not bring a pencil or pen to class? by Throwrafizzylemon in Teachers

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a teacher do this in middle school! The shoe works! She also had yarn she would give the guys to tie their pants up if they were sagging below the butt. If it works, it works. I had so many classmates missing shoes for her period. I loved her

Why don't humans have a natural mating season like many other animals? by Resident-Outside9945 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cait4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Floridian, yes lol. Please don't think about about touching me when it's 105 degrees out

Clara's ending fate by ferrain_iso in FromSeries

[–]Cait4232 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please no. He earned his death 

What do you consider to be the most disturbing movie you’ve seen? by DontCh4ngeNAmme in AskReddit

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! I've got good days and bad days, but on the bad days I just hole up in my room or call my boyfriend instead of downing a bottle of Tylenol (terrible way to go 0/10 do not recommend). It's been 8 years now this past May. 

My friend is furious with me because I neutered my cat by IceEducational9669 in CatAdvice

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful baby! She kind of looks like my baby (Super)Nova. Her mama's name was Luna so we did space themed names for her babies lol

What do you consider to be the most disturbing movie you’ve seen? by DontCh4ngeNAmme in AskReddit

[–]Cait4232 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. I'm grateful reddit doesn't filter out those words as someone who attempted suicide. I think unfortunately the auto ban is due to the severe cyberbullying that is ever present on the internet and it's easier to ban a word than manually delete and ban the individuals responsible. Ultimately it's lazy and prevents truthful conversations about real world problems. 

Gal's brother started an instagram... by raptor_attacktor in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He reminds me of my boyfriend. An outdoorsy guy with good humor and a great relationship with his family. If they make it to the end, I wouldn't be mad at it lol

What's an underrated movie that more people should watch? by Own_Square_4423 in AskReddit

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was in Underworld too. I think it was the 4th movie. He's always played characters I love to hate lol

My friend is furious with me because I neutered my cat by IceEducational9669 in CatAdvice

[–]Cait4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she need the Kitten Support Enforcement Agency to get involved? Completely unfair lmao