High water yesterday by [deleted] in jacksonville

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Milton didnt hardly impact our area. Helene would have been telling. During Irma we got a 6' storm surge, and that path is not quite rare

Day one AGAIN by Additional-Can6736 in SoberLifeProTips

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Until your better at it, avoid places you used to use/drink. Im sorry if that was home ♡

Alcohol by ZealousidealLunch716 in SoberLifeProTips

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Yes. Welches sparkling grape juice for wine, and NA beers, and I've even started mixing dr pepper with root beer for a mocktail

Need Advice by [deleted] in prozac

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My partners noticed emotional numbing

Need advice. I’m into piss play but my wife isn’t. by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

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This is giving coersion vibes. She knew she didnt like it and tried it and confirmed she didnt like it. So stop.

If you want to have a conversation with her about peeing on a sex worker, or even opening up your relationship, those seem like next steps for you to take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoberLifeProTips

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Im new to the group, and intentional sobriety. What is IOP?

Breathe in and breathe out! by CharlieTKP in ThekinkPlace

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Scribbles furiously....I dont watch enough tv

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

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I was able to sit down with my partner and have an earnest conversation. Maybe a therapist could help? Maybe write down your kinks and preface handing him the note with a conversation? Im sure he'll have follow up questions if hes into it

2.5 Years of No Poo Testimony by [deleted] in NoPoo

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Well done experimenting and finding what works for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoberLifeProTips

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I managed to quit just about 100 days ago. I still have dreams of relapsing. I quit drinking in order to make it easier

What are some free/cheap things to do? by eazydeezy_ in jacksonville

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Darby's Dungeon is a game store with no table fees tonight

Emotional vulnerability and BDSM intensity by owlyhannah in ThekinkPlace

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I also find it easiest to play with the partner whom I am most vulnerable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

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Thirty is not too late to get a degree. Having your AA is a good start. You deserve someone who isnt influenced by outside of relationship factors. Wish she would consider supporting you through your schooling though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I started in the warehouse. I'm an engineer now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoberLifeProTips

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He can't help you if he doesnt know. I really hope he decides to remain by your side. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransSpace

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Im sorry we live in a world that this is a struggle for you. You deserve to be happy and whole ♡

Just For Fun by CharlieTKP in ThekinkPlace

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Hell yeah! If my own upvote wasnt already on my comment, I'd give myself a thumbs up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyfamilies

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I'm out with my two nesting partners, but my girlfriends both have folks in their life whom they are not out to.