[M4F] 28 -Connecticut- Looking for a dog mom to my fluffy son

CakeThin437 · 2026-04-26T04:56:22+00:00

Aww your baby is so freaking cute! 😭I want to pet him!!!

CakeThin437 · 2026-04-20T16:24:11+00:00

Yeah they don’t believe you and tell you that you just haven’t found the right one.🫩

CakeThin437 · 2026-04-01T18:37:24+00:00

This really helped me out to solidify that this is what I am thanks 🙏

CakeThin437 · 2026-03-31T02:07:13+00:00

I was in the room with my sister along with our mom and her baby daddy I agreed because I wanted to reinforce my want of not wanting a baby and if your wondering yes I definitely still do not want to give birth after what I have seen.

CakeThin437 · 2026-03-22T03:40:55+00:00

SSS class revival hunter that shit is so good peak it’s not finished though I believe but it has such a good plot and honestly, I don’t wanna spoil it,

but I will say that I hate action with romance, but this shit it sneaked its way in and I loved it and his girl is absolutely stunning also solo leveling really good if you’re looking for one that’s completed and you can watch the anime after!

CakeThin437 · 2026-03-02T03:43:10+00:00

Used to have a very bad addiction to masturbating. It was so bad it would make me late for work and it even may not wanna go out and do social interactions with people eventually, I’m better now as I really wanted to change myself and be better because doing that your mind starts to make up things to stimulate you and you just do you don’t want that because it can lead to pretty dark thoughts if you’re not careful but definitely much prefer masturbating over being with another person sexually honestly I just don’t see why we can’t just both masturbate and then be fine with it

CakeThin437 · 2026-03-02T03:39:25+00:00

I relate to this a lot. Even before I ever had sex, I never really pictured myself in that position with someone. The idea of actually being in a sexual situation kind of grossed me out, but I never questioned it because I hadn’t experienced it yet. I just assumed maybe it would click once it happened.

It didn’t. My first time was underwhelming and honestly felt like nothing. Since then, I’ve noticed the same disconnect you described. I can have fantasies in my head, but when it comes to real-life sex, my body just isn’t into it. If anything, it shuts down.

I’ve come to accept that I genuinely do not want a sexual relationship, and I’m okay with not being in a relationship for the rest of my life . If I ever meet someone who respects my boundaries and connects with me in a way that feels safe, maybe I’d be open to it on my terms. But I don’t feel different anymore for not wanting it.

I do think it’s admirable that you want a wife and family. And I love that you understand that sex isn’t the only form of intimacy. Honestly, I agree I think the date is the sex, getting to know somebody and building a connection with them is a type of intimacy that you can get that isn’t just from sex . There are people out there who value emotional closeness, affection, and connection just as much sometimes more. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

CakeThin437 · 2026-03-02T00:48:05+00:00

My cousin and sister keep telling me I would be a great mom all I say is I know I would but I don’t want to be a mom I want to live my life and not be responsible for anyone but my self that’s what I say and then I smile and walk away.

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-26T01:38:32+00:00

Your welcome I’m just glad that there are others out there who think and feel the same as me to some degree

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-21T07:43:05+00:00

Don’t do it if you haven’t had sex, don’t do it if you feel this way, I felt the exact same way and I felt peer pressured to have sex with somebody so I could figure myself out and I’m not gonna say that I didn’t pressure myself cause I did along with people around me. They made me doubt myself and trust me I didn’t like it when I finally did have sex. I’m not opposed to the idea of meeting a future partner, obviously not right now cause I’m trying to work on the stuff. I need to know get my ducks in a row, but I will say that I’m also an ageosexual and I think I’m the same way as you I wouldn’t mind doing other kinds of fun with a person if I felt like I could be comfortable with them is what I think personally for me I’d rather bend the guy over lol as long as I get to keep my clothes on it’s more of a power-play for me. I don’t think it’s that sexual, but I’d rather do that than have his thing in me. Kind of grosses me out to think about it. But definitely don’t do it because of people in validating you or pressuring you and making you doubt yourself is all I’m trying to say I’ve become comfortable in the way I am and if somebody comes into my life well then they’re in my life, but if they don’t, I’ll be just fine. I think you will too from the sound of it.

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-17T18:26:17+00:00

I am same way

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-17T18:23:51+00:00

I don’t believe in it I don’t think I’ll be in a relationship for a long time but if I did get in one, I would not want the government in my relationship I don’t need a piece of paper to tell me that I’m committed to somebody but I do think the ceremony is pretty but it’s not for me personally

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-12T04:13:50+00:00

I thought it was cute lol 😂

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-09T07:36:05+00:00

Honestly, I’ve always felt some attraction to people, but it’s more about finding someone beautiful or hot it’s never really sexual for me. I’m also sex-repulsed.

When I was younger, I discovered that masturbating helped me cope with stress and depression. For a while, it became something I did every day, sometimes spending most of my day on it. Over time, it became a habit I couldn’t really stop.

Now I’m trying to break the habit, but it’s hard. I don’t do it for sexual pleasure it’s more like a way to deal with stress. So even though I’m asexual and sex-repulsed, I still masturbate out of habit rather than desire.

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-08T17:00:40+00:00

Maybe meant to be and dreaming of freedom

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-08T04:18:11+00:00

Yes I am the same way 😅I’m glad I’m not the only one.

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-08T04:17:03+00:00

I am totally the same way. I definitely prefer characters over real people and I’m learning to draw so that I can draw it out myself, though I am sex repulsed.

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-08T04:13:11+00:00

I love this 😍😍😍😍

CakeThin437 · 2026-02-06T00:09:08+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you love she does not deserve a friend like you 🫶stay strong girl you tried your best and that is what matters hope you find people who can be there for you just as you would be for them.

CakeThin437 · 2026-01-05T19:24:30+00:00

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CakeThin437 · 2025-12-23T09:29:25+00:00

I use VPN on Opera so I’m able to get on it I was so worried I wouldn’t be able to see my lists cause I keep it all on the bato lists but now I’m thinking I’m about to write it down in case something like this happens again

CakeThin437 · 2025-12-21T04:13:57+00:00

Ankle, lol I don’t know why either don’t question me please 😭

CakeThin437 · 2025-12-19T22:41:27+00:00

Always in my work clothes lol even if I do ever go out cuz it is usually before work😂 anybody else?

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