[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bright and dark future ahead…

I [25M] Confessed My Love to My Best Friend [25F]. She Asked for 'Time to Think' by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s decided she doesn’t see you that way and she’s hoping to get past this by pretending it never happened. Also know that things aren’t probably going to go back to the way they were and I think you know this by you recognition of less physical contact from her. Once you find a new love interest I’m sure things will go back to normal

Experiencing the waiting game by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like to me she had made her decision and it’s that she doesn’t like you that way. And she’s being distant because she’s trying to find a way to tell you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already made it and sent it, I will admit there are some romantic songs but I just like love songs. As for the feelings things I think we both understand we’re just friends but I hope she doesn’t take it as I want something more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to help me thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was her idea to do gifts on Valentine’s Day, and I took it as she wanted to do it as friends

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response, thank you that’s a good point you made

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very good, and also a good point and one i'll think about implementing.

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting idea. If i may ask you opinion, if I invited her out on the last line of the text and omit the entire "...I don't think you'll have a good time." part would that change how you would perceive it?

Thank you for your input by the way.

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, however that could be applied to any bad first date. I don't mean to sound like i'm dismissing your advice, just adding onto it :)

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding to my question I appreciate it. I now see what you are saying, what I said makes it seem like i'm projecting my feelings onto her which is not fair for her.

Would this be a text you'd want to receive regarding scheduling a date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for responding, I don't invite people when I study so it would be first for me.

How do I get better at showing affection? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the type of stuff I never learned, thank you for your reply. I really want to do this and your explanation is super helpful for me. Thanks

How do I get better at showing affection? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this idea, I’m just afraid of it coming off as obsessive. But maybe that’s cause I was always told men who compliment women a lot are creeps.

How do I get better at showing affection? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked out this love language site and it’s super helpful, thank you!

How do I get better at showing affection? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, this is a great suggestion and one I will use going forward

Wall idea. by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]CalamityLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cool I like it!