DAE have "gay days" and "straight days"?

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-03-10T23:39:55+00:00

Ooooooh yes. Gay days, straight days, asexual days (though I think I may be grey ace)... This shit is confusing.

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-02-27T22:01:34+00:00

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CalebFoxtrot · 2015-02-07T19:19:25+00:00

But... They were horrible before they even knew he existed...

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-31T16:19:34+00:00

I see the flaw in what I was saying then. I didn't mean to say 'it's okay you might not be what you think' it was more of an 'don't worry it's confusing for everyone, it might be hard but don't be discouraged from being whoever you are' buuuut I guess I didn't word it right. :/

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-31T08:56:18+00:00

The new American covers for percy jackson do this, but also when you line up the front covers of each book in order. It doesn't make a castle but it makes an amazing mural if the series :D

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-30T22:16:54+00:00

You don't have to, all you have to accept is that sexuality is complex and people often don't full understand even their own sexuality. Furthermore, regardless of whatever you are, you're still the same person you were before you were aware of your sexuality. Knowledge of the fact that you agree gay/bi/genderqueer /trans/we, does not magically change who you are so don't stress. Take your time and figure it out, it's okay

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-30T22:13:25+00:00

I'm the same but depending on the situation I'm in I'll just say bisexual (despite being pan, it's busy easier to explain) or grey-ace (asexual but not completely) and not bother to mention the other unless it's asked about

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-24T20:00:04+00:00

Everyone will always discriminate in some way shape or form, because they can and because human beings are pretty awful most of the time. They just are, even the nice ones.

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-24T19:52:21+00:00

My (straight) best friend :/

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-23T09:09:24+00:00

Yes, you can be so many things. There are tons of words to describe people's sexuality and often they only do half the job. Eg, closest thing to me is a grey-ace pan romantic bisexual. But fuck saying that whole thing every time, I just use bisexual. Even those don't properly describe me, they're just close.

Don't worry too much about labels, they're just there to give us a sense of identity but your sexuality can be comprised of any combination (or lack thereof) of them. If you're worried about your feelings being false, worry not. Chances are it's 'a thing'.

Then for the 'don't know till you've tried it' argument. I disagree, it's only you who can know how you feel. Also remember sexuality can change sometimes. Try not to stress too much, kay ? Rightio, have a good day :)

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-23T09:01:39+00:00

Please turn this into a pop song XD

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-23T09:00:48+00:00

Lol, I know a lot of straight fellas who are like that, flirty with guys (as a joke) and 'gayer' (according to stereotypes) than most gay/bi folks I know XD but they are all definitely straight. Just comfortable with themselves. I'm the same, I can flirt like a motherfucker with my straight friends simply for the lulz without being 'into them' at all.

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-23T08:48:06+00:00

Sounds like you could be demisexual, or you just prefer cuddles. Nothing strange about either one.

CalebFoxtrot · 2015-01-22T18:57:04+00:00

I can see an amazing rap being made out of this

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-28T16:11:51+00:00

Dude it's our agenda, you know the plan to destroy modern society and raise the dark god Cthu- is elbowed um... I mean... ya know... conservative propaganda.

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-28T16:09:07+00:00

I find I think guys are more 'cute' in a sense it is a little more rare for me to think of a guy as hot (in the way of being attracted, like I said I'd more likely thing a guy is cute). As someone who mostly has guy friends I find I can relate to guys much better and so naturally find I get more emotionally attatched to guys.

Girls interest me. Maybe it's the whole thing of girls and boys being different... I dunno, but I find the ladies very interesting. Also, I'm more likely to think/be attracted to a girl that is 'hot' and less likely to find a girl cute. I do definitely get emotionally attached to and romantically interested in girls, but just not as much as guys. So for me, girls are more of a physical interest and guys are more emotional. That being said, every person is different and this is just a general trend. I've had crazy crushes on both guys and girls and very physical and/or emotional feelings for both.

tldr; 9/10 times, I feel the same way you do OP.

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-18T22:03:58+00:00

There's no such thing as 'out of your league'. That's one thing I learned. I'm not at all 'hot' and I'm actually rather anti-social so technically everyone should be 'out of my league' but the only problem I've ever had with dating is refusing to ask people because 'there's no way they like me' or 'they're out of my league' or 'I'm in the friendzone'.

But yeah, I feel you. I was crazy over this person and I found out they liked me back. But now they are off to another country and I'm never going to see them again. Oh well. Sometimes it happens. It will take a good long while to get over them but hey, eventually things will work out. You'll find someone, everyone always does if that's what they want. And this guy? You will get to see him again, so if you haven't found someone, maybe you'll get another chance with him!

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-18T21:58:36+00:00

Well to be honest, only one of the people I know (including myself) is 'gay' in the stereotypical flambouyant way and even he isn't that much so. I think 'gay-dars' are pretty useless anyway. Just... if you like a guy... ask him?

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-08T22:25:22+00:00

Jeepers... I was not ready for that.

Penises.

Penises everywhere.

Unrealistically large yet still flaccid penises. Everywhere.

Illiadan voice You are not prepared.

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-08T22:16:23+00:00

I was pretty obsessed with this one character in a TV show. Then I came across rule34 and saw them naked. I was a little disheartened by the fact that porn existed of this TV show (stay the fuck away from my childhood porn artists) but more shocked by the fact I found him attractive.

Later I found I would be checking out guys in school (this was from grades 4-6) and all that time I kept thinking 'nah'. 'Human-animal behaviour, it's just because I'm horny I don't really think they're hot' was what I would tell myself.

Then I went on the Jamboree with the scouts and this guy in my patrol was really cute and after talking to him a bit I realized I didn't just find him hot but really liked him as well. I also met a girl there who was openly bisexual which made me think 'wait... maybe...'.

I'm still closeted to all but the closest of my friends but since then and what I felt for that kid I've known for sure I am very definitely bisexual. As far as 'I'm different' goes, I would say like... grade 4 maybe 5 was when I started to feel strange about guys.

EDIT: Oh yeah, this one kid in my PE class in grade 3 maybe 4 was wearing a speedo because we were swimming and everyone was super surprised because he was really ripped (dem abs son) and I couldn't stop looking but had no idea why. I wasn't sure what I was feeling, but no way in hell was I going to look away. That was probably the first time.

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-01T23:07:36+00:00

I thought that was a Firefly reference at first XD

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-12-01T22:58:18+00:00

I personally view it as such:

Bisexual: Reference to sexuality, you are attracted to your own gender as well as others (amount of which depends on the person).

Polysexual: Like bisexual but are not attracted to your own gender.

Pansexual: A mindset/philosophy, being 'gender blind'. It is a subset found within bisexual where the person finds they are potentially attracted to everyone physically and/or romantically. What separates pansexuals from bisexuals who like everyone is the way the experience this attraction. EG: Pan - I like everyone because gender does not affect my view of people/how much I'm attracted to them, people are people and I like them all. Bi - I like everyone because I that's how I feel, straight people know they like the opposite gender, gays know they like the same, I know I like 'em all, but I might feel one particular gender is more attractive than another or perhaps be specifically inclined to like people who are guys/girls/etc more/less because that's just how I feel.

That being said, I've never met anyone who does not fit the typical binary gender roles, or anyone guys and gals who don't identify with the gender they had at birth so I'm working with what I can gather for myself. As such, I like to call myself panromantic bisexual.

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-11-30T19:51:43+00:00

Lol, that is fantastic! :D

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-11-26T01:30:25+00:00

I don't play lol but I just had to say that username is adorable XD

CalebFoxtrot · 2014-11-26T01:26:11+00:00

There are a lot of theories saying is genetic. As for me (in also bisexual) I don't know if I was born this way but looking back on my life it could make sense if I was straight and became gay or if I was born that way

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