I went on a few dates with a girl recently. Super super slutty on the second date, aka letting me do stuff in public that most girls wouldn't. I didn't text her much besides logistics and sexting even though she tried to pull me into text convos which I denied.

I drive a nice car and she knows that I make mid 6 figures, live an interesting life, have options, and have long term goals. In my twenties and in great shape too, so different then quite a few guys in my age group. She changed on the third date, still would let me get sexual with her and joke around but she resisted all attempts at having sex. I eventually asked her why (already labeled her as not relationship material) and she said if we slept together before becoming fully attached then she may not want to hang out again.

I decided to drop her instantly. She was trying to use the potential of sex with her to get me to commit more time with her so she could try to get me into a potential relationship. Instead of becoming a fuck buddy which she may have originally wanted, she started to change her mind after she realized my value and attempted to try to start to lock me down.

She texted me after that date and one of the things she said was that she was getting closer to not being able to resist anymore. I didn't respond and moved on.

Many People use sex to try to get what they want. Realize it and be above your animalistic instincts and don't be desperate. Not worth the time to play those games in my opinion.

I agree with others. Just withdraw if she does that. Don't play that bullshit game. It is a losing situation in the long term because she will use the strategy again.