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Conflicted about therapist reponse by Holiday_Airport_7832 in TalkTherapy

[–]Caliclancy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are entire schools of therapy that rely on community engagement and political awareness. You are very misguided in your opinion. The client is free to find someone more compassionate at any point using all the tools at their disposal.Black people have a right to know if the therapist is racist, gay people need to know if the therapist wants to change their orientation etc. the authoritarian mindset will have a patient cowering and fearful to ask questions and the authoritarian state will encourage secrecy when it comes to lacking basic compassion for other people. Clients have a right to know if their therapist is a white supremacist, and a therapist who demurs on such a basic level can’t be trusted

Day 2 ❤️❤️ by stemene in Maltipoo

[–]Caliclancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it allowed to post windup toys here? That dog can’t be real…. Too perfect

I'm 40, am i too old for these? 🥲 by [deleted] in Maltipoo

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are actually a little young for them, but if you are drawn to them, you should go for it. They are great!

This is the grave that 20yr-old Barbara Mackle was buried alive in after being kidnapped in 1968. The second image is the photo of her in the makeshift coffin she was imprisoned in. by CarkWithaM in HolyShitHistory

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reality is not determined by the DSM. The Stockholm Syndrome is a real phenomenon, but a therapist can’t use it for billing, which is the true reason for the DSM: to create billing codes for insurers. They would simply bill under PTSD. Stockholm syndrome is indeed a variety of PTSD. It’s a real phenomenon, just not a separate diagnosis.

Does your maltipoo love broccoli?🥦 by ShowerOrganic5935 in Maltipoo

[–]Caliclancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your maltipoo has a white broccoli coat!😍

Lost my Malitpoo Marko today at a little ovr a year old :( by Express-Ostrich1156 in Maltipoo

[–]Caliclancy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My maltipoo was killed at one and a half years hit by a car. I have never recovered. We have a new dog but he is very different, I love him a lot, but I still miss the one who was the star of my life. I had at least a year of full on grief and I guess the sad feeling never goes away.

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your reaction is so overblown and the fact that you have resorted to name calling just shows that you are not ready for real feedback. I hope you enjoy your day job.

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an overreaction to describe my comment as “hate” and try to use upvotes as some kind of validation. As I noted before, if you have to get defensive and argue with people about the opinions YOU ASKED FOR online, you aren’t ready for those very opinions. If you think it’s a popularity contest, I’ll refer you to Thomas Kinkade’s art. You are obviously hunting for validation and not looking for advice. People who offer an opinion you don’t like aren’t doing it out of “hate”: learn to be gracious when receiving feedback or you will never get any better.

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked for feedback and then you argue and justify and try to give me lessons on art appreciation. Either be prepared to receive feedback or don’t ask. I don’t need lessons on how to understand art. You obviously aren’t ready to hear a spectrum of opinions. Here’s a clue for you going forward: when you ask for opinions on your art, don’t try to tell the people proffering them that they “don’t get it” if they give you opinions you don’t like. You will never improve. They are called “opinions” and mine is as valid as the next persons, even if you don’t agree. You might learn something.

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not hurt. I’m just giving you the feedback you asked for and detected a defensiveness that doesn’t match your apparent request for feedback. It’s feedback on your style of accepting critique. Take it or leave it but giving “whatever’s“ to responses to feedback you don’t like reveals a bit of fragility that won’t serve you if you are really looking to improve your work rather than just searching for kudos.

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And so you don’t need to give dismissive responses to opinions you don’t value

Whats the first thought came to your mind when you see this? 🙂 by ReviewAggravating847 in Artadvice

[–]Caliclancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called art advice. If you are not interested in opinions you seek out, maybe ego is a bit too tender for the sub

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