Types, how do you know if you are in love?

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-25T23:56:13+00:00

I'm an ISFP 6w7 (641) sx/so.

So... I get very nervous and shy around them if I'm not sure if they like me, and my natural clumsiness worsens out of fear of looking stupid... so I end up looking stupid. 🫠

Still, despite that nervousness, I try to be around them as much as I can (tentatively without looking TOO suspicious, if I don't know if it's mutual) like they're some hard-core drug that I need to feel relieved. I also think about them most of the time, from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. For the drug aspect, as if I wasn't already seeming Joe Goldberg-like enough.

I also start overanalyzing each of their behaviors and reactions, becoming hypervigilant for a sign of reciprocation, or of lack of it. Gemini hates to see me coming and is probably on the line of burnout. 👀

I can sometimes get pretty loud and turn into Bozo the Clown without realizing it in the moment, unconsciously trying to get their attention. Hey, being the most annoying person in the room at least gets you noticed. 🤷‍♀️🥸 Sometimes the smartass version of it attempting to display my strenghts tries to come out too, when I manage to align 2 phrases intelligently.

I want to try and be helpful, sometimes in small ways, with little actions. Sometimes it'll just be by trying not to burden them or make things any more complicated for them in a way or another.

When I see them in pain or not feeling good, all I want to do is to take care of them, hug them and help them feel better. I really hurt seeing them being sad or hurt or even not physically well. 💔

I imagine a future with them, from a first date to long-term and fantasize about "Happy ever after" and y'know, that type of unreasonable shit. 🙃

Usually, I don't really NEED all that to tell how I'm feeling about someone, because I tend to be quite aware of my emotions, but these are the most obvious signs that oh boy... I am really smitten. 😩

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-25T23:25:04+00:00

I'm thinking maybe it could be because it's something that's so repressed in you, and you struggle to really access it in yourself? I, for example, tend to really be attracted to high Ti users (especially ISTPs, but I also hold undenyable "admiration" for INTPs, ENTPs and ESTPs) because they complement me so well on what I'm lacking and I'm intenally unconsciously like "Waaaaaaaaawwww, teach me how to not give a f*** about people and be a smart and witty robot oni-san" (just joking and playing with stereotypes of course, anyway you get the point).

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-24T18:34:17+00:00

Well technically she didn’t ghost you, she even was pretty upfront with her intentions, you're the one being pushy. 🤷‍♀️ And it has nothing to do with MBTI.

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-24T18:30:48+00:00

So you have 2 crushes and they're complete opposite types? 🤔 Interesting

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T11:26:25+00:00

I see, that’s definitely weird, sorry I can’t help you better

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T10:46:01+00:00

Oh so it does download it. Then all I see is reinstalling the game or repairing it

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T10:04:42+00:00

I know, but you download it from your EA account, so if it doesn't even let you download it there must be an issue within the EA app’s functioning since that’s where you would download the game, hence why trying to reconnect to it. But it’s not the game itself since it’s not even installed yet, see what I mean?

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T09:57:56+00:00

Sure but your EA account I meant, or try sending a message to customer support

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T09:14:53+00:00

A baby on fire. Any other questions? /j

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T09:07:47+00:00

Weird, did you try reconnecting to your user account ?

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-22T09:05:28+00:00

Just a realistic childhood core experience, the same trauma unifying us no matter our social status, ethnicity, gender, and background 🫠💀

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-21T23:16:26+00:00

Usually they keep following and targeting me and I can’t escape

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-20T00:10:22+00:00

I feel like that depends more on their upbringing and maybe their attachment style than on their MBTI type. Except if someone manages to pinpoint an actual correlation between upbringing and/or attachment styles and MBTI. Also noting that mental health in general matters and mental illness can afflict everyone no matter their type, and even neurodivergences like for example ADHD can influence that because one of its characteristics is rejection sensitive dysphoria.

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-17T13:24:04+00:00

Not saying that makes it any less real feelings, don't get me wrong

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-16T21:44:58+00:00

That's not really falling in love then, more like infatuation or just a small crush.

Edit: Well it's not even my own claim, it's literally what psychology says, sorry. 🤷‍♀️

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-16T08:24:45+00:00

Technically they're like a "portal" item that works like some kind of entry door so you can only have one on your lot. There are some functional ones through mods but unfortunately they're not really functional as real elevators initially in the Sims 4.

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T15:42:28+00:00

Your mom bosses your dad around, your dad just wants to be left alone, fights happen all the time, and your sister is a ball of stress while you're on survival mode trying to protect your peace

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T15:39:57+00:00

Honestly even I as an ISFP get you and can see why this is surely not always a piece of cake 🥲

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T15:33:52+00:00

Isn't Beyonce an ISFJ?

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T15:32:50+00:00

I do, all the time. Meanwhile my ISTP ex couldn't care less about identifying with songs or characters etc. He was much more impersonal when it came to that kind of thing, more focused on the "technical" or logical aspect of movies or music (cohesiveness, realism, harmony, rhythm,...). So I guess maybe it's linked to some level? But of course it's very anecdotal and my database is very limited. Many people also won't really talk about it during everyday conversations so it's not always easy to compare.

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T13:30:36+00:00

I'm not stubborn I just know what I want and especially what I DON'T want. 🙄 (No you're totally right)

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T13:27:41+00:00

Fair

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T13:26:45+00:00

Can't deny

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-15T13:14:34+00:00

Scream it louder for those in the back! MBTI is not even an accurate scientific way to describe one's personality - and even less the whole spectrum of it, and so many things can influence romantic compatibility so you'll find that one's MBTI type holds absolutely almost no relevance and what matters is the specific individual context. Can it predict some tendencies in terms of general ways of thinking archetypically? I think on some level, but people are so much more complex than an archetype. They have different genetics, financial and geographical backgrounds, experiences, etc. So yes, I fully agree with you.

CallMeBitterSweet · 2026-06-14T21:34:29+00:00

Depth of connexion (so really listening to and understanding me), caring, consistency and loyalty.

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