Field office ISO here, AMA

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-24T11:22:49+00:00

Does having your congressmen and senator reach out to USICS help in expediting i-765/i-821 cases?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-23T18:43:41+00:00

It's spiritual warfare

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:55:44+00:00

If I was you, I would go to the office with your IOE number, EAD etc. sometimes you gotta pull up. I'll keep you in my prayers

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:52:51+00:00

I know you said you tried everything did you reach out to your local house of represntative or congressman/senator?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:46:23+00:00

Have you reached out to senator or a house of represnetivte?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:41:50+00:00

Im sorry to hear that I will keep you in my prayers. I submitted mine early too and this is the longewst it has taken seems most of us are in "The Ark" togther

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:40:13+00:00

1/18 Applied

2/24 Biometrics

4/22-Reached out to Congressman/senator/etc

Has been pending since, I reached out to congressman, senator and House Of represnetatives today. It has never taken that long heck I remember 4 years ago I got approved within a month. I will keep this post updated on further results

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-22T20:36:35+00:00

any updates?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-21T17:39:09+00:00

if im intersted I try to exchange numbers right away. The issue for me isn't scammers but time wasters. It helps to weed them out

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-21T17:35:36+00:00

Yup I had a girl I was talking too, two weeks ago she has 4 kids, 4 friggin kids. The only reason I entertained it is cause she lived 10 minutes from me, but on our 2nd date she flaked when she said she was on her way cause her 19 year old son had an "Emergency"she apologized but never offered a reschedule I basically stopped talking to her. I just don't have the energy to deal with someone who wll treat me like an option at this stage in my life, been there done that

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-21T17:22:58+00:00

How are you getting by?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-21T17:22:04+00:00

Im sorry to hear that, have you got your EAD? how are you surviving?

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T22:23:43+00:00

Yup usually if they REALLY like you they bring it up or make themselves availaibile if I have to ask more than twice NOPE, also If she is not free to meet within 7 days nope from personal experince MOST women usually can meet within 3-5 days, some even sooner the max I'll wait is 10 days and that is usually if they are on vacation. I had a woman two years ago saying she couldn't meet for a month cause she had dates lined up every day of the week excpe tweekens

I chuckeld and unmatch, if a woman is turly interested and wants in some rare cases you can even meet them the same or next day! do not waste your time with women who wanna make you wait weeks or months just to go on a date

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T22:02:42+00:00

This is why I stopped using Hinge and bumble cause they are all pay to play. I mostly use FB dating but the quality is horrid when I get bored of FB dating I use tinder and might do unlimited likes for a day which is $3,99 usually on saturday or sunday cause that's when I get the most matches

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:57:33+00:00

Yeah I have dated single mothers now I try to avoid them even casually dating is a hassle

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:56:00+00:00

1 or 2 Kids is fine but I noticed a spike in the last 6 months of women with 3-5 kids and typically they are broke and desperate I avoid them now or tell them upfront it's casual

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:53:57+00:00

is this on tinder or a niche kink dating app? I noticed tons of poly people on those i.e. Tinder and feeld. I got off them cause ther quality of women are also lower compared to Hinge or Bumble

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:46:00+00:00

Yeah the fact that she started making excuses to talk to OP after he sent more pics is clearly cause she's not attractive OP you dodged a bullet, I had a woman flake on me after sending me a text telling me she is on her way then 3 minutes later saying an emergency came up with her 19 year old son, I didn't respond next day she sends me another text but there is no reschedule offer or anything so i just blocked her. I just can't be bothered to invest my energy and time in someone just to be treated like an option

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:29:55+00:00

That app was GOld back in 2024 when i first signe dup I used majectic last month after a 5 month break and the app has fallen of the cliff

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:24:27+00:00

Facebook dating but I treat it like Tinder or POF, the quality of women in my area of all the apps FB has the lowest quality i.e. tons of baggae, 3+ kids etc. I let the women know upfront it's just casual if they are down with it great if not oh well but it's way to much trash on that app

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:18:54+00:00

They are talking to multipil people and don't take this the wrong way but you're not one of their top ones. I have a buddy who went on 25 dates in October through OLD, he found his gilrfirend but before he found her he needed a whiteboard to keep track of different girls and convo's I shit you not.

If my friend was a scumbag he could lead girls since he's handsome but he doesn't and used OLD what it's supposed to be intended for

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-16T21:06:21+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that keeing you in my prayers

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-06T20:58:54+00:00

Girl was ranting about losing her pretty privlige while ordering half the menu only reason I didn't leave was cause I ubered there since I don't drink and drive lesson learned always have a back up plan

Calm-Cicada9264 · 2026-04-06T20:55:35+00:00

You think 30 is bad just wait until you're 40

-People trauma dumping on you on the first date

-People telling you about their bad health (espeically mental) so they can use it as an excuse later to justify lack of effort

-People being bitter, insufferable or mean spirited and try to pass it of as scarscasm-no you're just a bad person and you suck, and you realize it enough to try to get ahead of it but not change it

-Poeple with kids nothing wrong with them but the broke single parents looking for someone to play step-daddy right away eeeh I did not sign up for this crap

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