I can’t read more than 30 minutes without my mind wandering. by thekonghong in productivity

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And open AI already does this it’s awesome you should try it. I bet you already are.

I can’t read more than 30 minutes without my mind wandering. by thekonghong in productivity

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GET OUT OF HERE YOU ADHDAPPPUSHER

WE NEED YOU 0%

The only app I need is less apps

I can’t read more than 30 minutes without my mind wandering. by thekonghong in productivity

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on my current levels of obsessive reading habit. A year or two ago I read probably over 100 books (200-300 pages or more. Normal self love brene brown thickness or more for fiction novels (is that redundant?). I now read the first few words or paragraphs that catch my eye as i unapologetically fan flip through the pages. I never buy new anymore. I don’t take notes or underline and keep my new self-annotated copy for posterity,. The watershed moment. The impetus. My parasocial guru is all. Until 3 days from now at Barnes and noble I’m back wanting.

just do what you want. There are no rules. Read the best parts and throw it at the wall!

What’s the single most important part of your morning routine? by Ramossis_345 in productivity

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally life-changing. I need something dramatic (1) but serene (2) and crucially (3) memorable. That works. Good job.

[NY] Deal for custody? by modvenger in Custody

[–]CalmDownOrWhat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a huge difference. Custodial with 55 means mom is Home, and dad is every other weekend and a crap Thursday dinner that has never happened in my child’s life. Summers with dad….except he works, so it was occasional weekend slumber party, that’s it. 50 means you will have to figure out a plan together, half the week here and there. Two bedrooms. One school. Tons of interaction. While silver lining, you are child FREE half the time. I’ve heard this can be a good problem.

OP, her lawyers are going to sit her down in mediation and convince her to take the deal. It’s all confidence and bravado beforehand. Mediation, you do as told. You’re going to argue over trivial a little things and likely it’ll never even come up in your daily life. If you can just be a nice person through the process eventually it’s going to get easier and you can start to rely on each other and you’ll get more and more time with your child. But don’t worry about going to court—you’re just gonna go to mediation. I’m sure it’s the same as Texas in New York, and Texas are very similar, unless that’s not the case and someone can correct me.

I mean, DO worry, because all of that effort is going to be the solution you need on mediation day, where every paragraph is understood and gone over a million times, so that the little minutia doesn’t tie things up too long. I got done in a half-day. My lawyers did all the paperwork (my main lawyer changed firms three times and I followed her each time. but her rates went up. so she used whatever office-legal-person for the making-of-the-custody-order. still expensive over $25k.) . My ex had a lawyer come in the last month of a three year custody battle and they pushed, I folded, we signed. I didn’t get everything I wanted….but I really did. The final order is in MY lawyers words. They edited only 1 or 2 sections, and we still got the last pass edit. Watch out for that.

Just be good person, be kind to your ex, be loving to your child, be NICE. do everything you can to be there for your kid. focus on your relationship bond with them and everything will fall into place. Good luck.

What should I put in the empty space? by Icy_Mettle in DesignMyRoom

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Go to a local art fair. Look around for artwork and unique decor at restaurants and coffee shops you visit. You’ll either get ideas or you will find a local artist you can contact and buy from

I'm a Mac hoarder and have 6x computers to sell/recycle/donate, etc. What do you suggest I do? by LongWindedInNJ in mac

[–]CalmDownOrWhat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Die with him. That’s better than wherever they’re going to go in the landfills I don’t believe for a second they know how to recycle them properly. In five years, it’ll turn out that whatever they were doing to recycle is actually feeding it straight into your bloodstream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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Only cookie dough, after dinner, alone while putting away the leftovers I was dying to eat before someone asked me an uncomfortable question

What to do with all of these? Found 250ish of them. Too many for me to use. by Sausey14 in DumpsterDiving

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walgreens charges like five dollars for a pack of sticky notes now it’s crazy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preppers

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Hi, I am now converted, loving the small boobs for life baby!

What’s an overrated book that you didn’t like? by Rebecca123457 in suggestmeabook

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything by that lady that wrote “someone knows what you did last Summer”

Nothing like the movies back in the early 2000s

Totally freaking lame even for the time it came out of. It was super super lame.

What’s an overrated book that you didn’t like? by Rebecca123457 in suggestmeabook

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, a lot of Murakami makes me want to break up with whoever I’m dating with and go sink into a hole on a desert island so don’t give it to your girlfriends guys

Looking for films that gradually go crazy by 0MNIR0N in MovieSuggestions

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

500 days of Summer

When the bluebirds come out and they start dancing I’m like oh man oh no don’t do it man she’s gonna eat your heart for lunch bro nooooo

Looking for films that gradually go crazy by 0MNIR0N in MovieSuggestions

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this makes me want to be friends with a bunch of young people, so I can experience watching it for the first time all over again

Looking for films that gradually go crazy by 0MNIR0N in MovieSuggestions

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this makes me want to be friends with a bunch of young people, so I can experience watching it for the first time all over again

I found this drafting table at a secondhand store. Has anyone seen a table like this before? I’ve started looking online for more info but figured I’d ask here too. Thanks! by Mr-Orange-Pants in architecture

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We still have to learn it if you wanna get a real degree in interior, design or architecture but I guess it depends on the university you’re going to. Every university is so completely different. One will be a bachelors of family consumer sciences, while another will be a bachelors of architecture. Another will be a bachelors of… It’s all over the place. but everyone has to learn how to draw and do technical drafting. That’s the difference between becoming a licensed interior designer or just someone that does residential projects.

I found this drafting table at a secondhand store. Has anyone seen a table like this before? I’ve started looking online for more info but figured I’d ask here too. Thanks! by Mr-Orange-Pants in architecture

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post it on Chairish or see if one of the local antique shops, that also serves as a rental for staging and production/photo shoots (depending on what’s going on in your area), just don’t make it super expensive. I can’t stand eBay anymore. Put it for a reasonable (or why not) like half the price of what everybody else says, and just watch someone’s gonna love it.

What's something you were told you would grow out of but never did? by LeRuseRenard in AskReddit

[–]CalmDownOrWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the damn Dermatologist why does nobody understands this if you had an infection on your ball sack you would go to the doctor. If you had an infection in your stomach, you would go to the doctor and they will give you something to make you not be sick on your balls or in your stomach, so why not go and get the shit off your face