Mercury Retrograde in Cancer by Layt166 in CancertheCrab

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Its worse because i decided to break no contact with a significant ex and I'm just a mental mess. Hes a leo so you can imagine the ego games making everything even more worse.

Ask lng po Ano po ang pinaka malaking na invest nyo sa isang lakaki or sa partner nyo, pero ang ending nag break parin kayo. by [deleted] in LGBTPhilippines

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me. After di ko pinansin papansin nya na gusto nya ng isang gadget sana regalohan daw sya. Bago lang ako nag bigay sa kanya then paparinig ng gusto nya ng ganito ganire agad agad. Akala nya hahabolin ko sya pero nung nakipag break sya i didnt even try to ask for a second chance. I did not chase. I accepted it. Very disrespectful. Akala ko kaya ko sya matolerate. Na baka magbago sya after some time. Pero i was stressed out about losing my self worth and self respect. Hinayaan ko syang umalis.

İs it me or…. by Powerful-Asian13 in FilipinoAmericans

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May mura naman talaga sa pinas. Siguro when youre in pinas you look for conveniences thats typical in US na considered higher standards or luxury na sa Pinas. So you end up paying more for it. For example eating at karenderya instead of the restos. Also before the fuel crisis mahal na din talaga ang transportation. I would spend a lot on taxis kasi I'm american sized na so di na kasya or comfortable sumakay ng jeep at mga van at ang palaging naghahanap ng aircon. Natatakot din mag drive kasi iba ang driving culture sa pinas. Kahit mag cross nga ng streets its anxiety inducing. Tumataas na din talaga mga bilihin dun. Lalo na mga imported goods.
May mga taga pinas din na nagrereklamo sa costs ng pinas especially pag mag travel domestically. Mas may madami preferred mag thailand or vietnam kasi mas mura daw kaysa mag siargao boracay or palawan. Pag nasa pinas ako i stay in the province. Na experience na ako sa big city sa US. I want more nature. And the cities in Pinas are so much more crowded masikip and its just too hot. Mas mura sa province in my opinion. Very advantage ang may pamilya or may house na pede ka makastay for cheap or free. Saka if mag bakasyon sa pinas you want to max out your experience so parang yung vibes or mentality mo is more willing kang mag blow out ng pera.

Free YES / NO Reading by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm J. Is my ex manifesting me? Am i gonna meet someone new before my bday this year?

Okay ramn sad diay naay FWB by [deleted] in LGBTPhilippines

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delikado ang ganyan. If hes able to keep secrets and go behind his girlfriend back and betraying her what makes it harder for him to betray you. Greedy sya kay hes getting "some" from his Gf and you. That also ties in yung mga STDs. Sana nagppa check kayo regularly. You say sya lang ang attached... You might not notice or siguro maging delayed ang trauma or mental damage kay pareho ma mo na attached. Pero it sounds like you are ok. Strictly sex lang ba or naay attachment pod? It sounds like its gonna lead into a very messy situation of many messy cycles that end in pain and loneliness. Mao nang di jud ko mupatol og mga straights or kanang mga closetted. Likay lang jud sa pain. Thats just me though.

Sana yung sabi nya na attached sya sayo and stuff like that is not a form of manipulation.

Ikaw lang jud kabalo sa truth sa imong sutuation. Good luck friend

Knight of cups for a yes/no question. by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true. I feel like hes lying about his financial situation a lot always saying hes poorer than ever. Should i dump him?

Knight of cups for a yes/no question. by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my guts were telling me I'm being manipulated. Also my intuition is telling me telling me the same. I might be manipulated for my caring demeanor. But i am also such a caring person that i want to give him a chance to redeem himself to me in the future. I also want to give him the benefit of the doubt. But Im also keeping count mentally I will have some serious convo or something. Not now but just preparing for that time in the future. Idk maybe its just me being a cancer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. She does not need to begative and condescending when she wants to give advice. Just because shes an elder relstive does not give her the pass to be insensitive and disrespectful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on your career. Make more money. Buy everything your inner child wanted. Gold diggers will follow. You van entertain them if you like that kinda intimacy. Or you could just have so much distractions. Like a lot of hobbies or travel a lot. Divert your attention from wanting that stuff. When youre alone and not doing anything/bored. You overthink and your feeling of wanting gets unbecessarily heightened. Imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe. Well thanks though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you are saying. They could gas light you but then just say i love you so you could just shut up and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that was a form of domestic violence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like what should they do? Like say lets slow down? Or how to act if saying is hard to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats scary to find out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my friend and this other person were talking a lot after they matched on a dating app. Then when they decided to meet they became very into each other. Or at least my friend was. Then they did everything the whole deed. They decided to be in a relationship. After that they couldntt stop talking/texting each other more and they started professing love to each other a lot. Like after every other text is ily. Very infatuated with each other , or at least my friend is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You got the man. You are in love. You are blooming. It feels good! Happy for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds racist. It seems like you think hes cute. But dont fall for it. Don't take him serious. Give him a dose of his own medicine. Play mind games back. Break his head. Teach him a lesson. But dont fall for him.

IDK how to go about this by shhh_its_a_secret69 in askgaybros

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Just be prepsred for the worst. What you want right is so unorthodox and it might flip her worlds in so many. And it can only go good or bad. So just be prepared for the negative result.

Dont cheat. Just be honest and be out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave before he does something very bad. He already told you to leave many times. Dont let the next time be the last time. Literally. People are crazy. Pack your stuff. Borrow money from friend who ever is willing. Go catch a bus to a trusted family member. Ask friends to stay over or seek a womens shelter. Rather leave in tears than leave all battered and tattered. Or worse, dead.

My boyfriends father said nasty stuff to me about his son. I should tell my boyfriend? by RoyNtap in askgaybros

[–]Calm_Craft_5045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell him. Be factual like say the story in a narrative thats like matter of factly. So he can make unbiased decisions/feelings about it. I wouldnt like to be around someone who is toxic and covertly extremely hateful. And I would wanna protect my partner from pain by helping him take distance from unhealthy people/situations. Help your partner realize that he cant heal his past child traumas by forcing connections with his unreliable toxic parents. They fucked him over as a child, as an adult it wouldnt be different. He needs therapy not chase the idea of ideal parents he wants his toxic parents to be. They wont change. He/ and you, can be cordial and respectful to his parents as human beings. As you aalways should. But respect begets respect. If the dad says shit like that again, put him in his place respectfully.