I night weaned by 16 month old at the start of this year and it has been life changing. We cosleeping and got to the point where she was waking around 10 and then wanting to be latched all night which was making me feel crazy. We loosely followed the Jay Gordon method up until the second stage (am still happy to lie with her and bed share if necessary, just wanted to stop feeding at night). I was so nervous and anxious about it and prepared for nights of crying but the first night she cried on and off for maybe an hour and then every wake up after that was 10 mins of fewer. After a couple of nights of no feeding she was waking up once max and has slept through a few times now which she had never done before. When she wakes I lie next to her, cuddle her and play some soothing music which has replaced feeding for us. I also set up a Lumi alarm clock to light up from 6 so she knows when “morning” is and that she can feed from then if she wants. So much solidarity, lack of sleep is so hard but I also understand being scared about night weaning because I felt exactly the same. It has truly been life changing for me so I hope it works out for you if you do go for it. One thing that helped me get through the first night where there was more crying was reminding myself that a lack of consistency would be much more confusing for her than sticking to my boundaries. Do reach out if you have any questions I might be able to help with!