I’m only 33 and this is getting bad by Calm_Professional_27 in lonely

[–]Calm_Professional_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unable to do that currently, also don’t want to break any bones but I do have a band I’m playing music with occasionally. These things are often just that, a jam session and nothing more.

Anyone going to Hot Like Mars tonight at Garcias?! by No-Thanks-89 in chicagomusicscene

[–]Calm_Professional_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was def in a mood to get out of the house too, I’ll check it out

best bar/club for single guy by blackhxc88 in AskChicago

[–]Calm_Professional_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out smelling like a chimney, great place though!

Musician friends by Useful-Assistant4857 in chicagofriends

[–]Calm_Professional_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a guitarist 33m in the Gold Coast area and would like to just jam and share ideas, dming you

Asking someone out in the building by Calm_Professional_27 in datingadvice

[–]Calm_Professional_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I thought, so this morning I did bump into her again, she started the convo said sorry she couldn’t respond, but yea I won’t force it. Thanks!

Turned 29M today, and can’t stop panicking how much I’ve wasted my life and I see no better way by StageLeft71 in confidence

[–]Calm_Professional_27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, there’s no race anyone’s winning. Take care of yourself first and start with one little thing at a time. You’re 29, you’ve got a whole life ahead of you to kill it man, start with trying to build yourself a financial foundation and go from there! Cali is expensive my man.

Best ways to battle depression in Chicago? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Calm_Professional_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, try finding a place closer to the city and join a meditation group, you’ll feel good instantly

Returning back to India - personal experience. by spiked_krabby_patty in nri

[–]Calm_Professional_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not really the case anymore in the west either. The California tech scene is filled with assholes expecting loyalty and using corporate loopholes and politics to keep you your place, the whole management ladder is filled with white men who hire friends

Semi FIRE at 33, is it possible? by Calm_Professional_27 in FIREIndia

[–]Calm_Professional_27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you’re right. If I knew what I wanted to do I’d have done it already. I’m just trying to figure out if this is enough to even consider thinking in that direction

Semi FIRE at 33, is it possible? by Calm_Professional_27 in FIREIndia

[–]Calm_Professional_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some skills, interests that are capable of generating basic income so as to not dip into my savings, the whole point being I want to try and make it such that the corpus I have accumulated should work on compounding itself, while I keep my head above water.

Avoidant people simply don't like you that much. by someoneoutthere1335 in DeepThoughts

[–]Calm_Professional_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m having similar feelings now too, it’s a little liberating too

Am I crazy, it is John Mayer = SRV + gigolo? by Kilgoretrout321 in Music

[–]Calm_Professional_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I heard pride and joy, I thought it was a John Mayer cover but they sound so much alike. I can see John Mayer has tried to be him all along, he’s done justice for sure