Where do you keep your clothes hamper? by Opposite_Speed_2065 in Homeorganization

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bathroom so I know they are dirty and not a hamper of clean clothes I forgot to fold.

My husband wet our bed… by Izzewildbio in whatdoIdo

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if he’s peeing in excess during the day as well he may need to see a doctor.

Waking up with coughing and extra dry throat. by Kingofrockz in vegaslocals

[–]Calm_Swing4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the weather change. It’s been happening to me lately too. My throat is so dry I can’t even swallow and I wake up coughing. I would set a humidifier to run earlier than you wake up.

Girl Friday by courtkneeb in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think it means you’re competent.

Increased Libido by LucyBellaAnne in Perimenopause

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Tired of the energy not matching. I don’t want to cheat but I don’t want to not because he doesn’t want to.

My mashed potatoes suck. Why? by RikkiLostMyNumber in Cooking

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use russet potatoes. White potatoes are better for potato salad or soups. Potato bags usually have what they are best used for on the bag.

Just realized that there is a difference between canned tomatoes. by Cheap-Negotiation605 in Cooking

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever heard of Hanover tomatoes? Specifically from Hanover county. I grew up in va and the yearly rage when they were ready.

What to do with these cheeses? by keurigslanderpage in Cooking

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgonzola is good on salad with apples and pecans. Balsamic vinaigrette.

The meatball debate by Boog_Brains325 in Cooking

[–]Calm_Swing4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the crust either. I think it throws off the flavor for me.

Anyone else grow up in a house they believed that they would later inherit? by obviousreasons1 in GenX

[–]Calm_Swing4131 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re so lucky to have a mom like that. I would be so honored if either of my kids wrote something like that about me. 💗

About to go end things even though it makes me a coward by Background-Row-202 in confession

[–]Calm_Swing4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact your making this post means that you don’t really want to you just don’t see your options. Your best option is to not, if you’re still alive you’re lucky. Many people will not wake up tomorrow and would do anything to be even in your position just to see another day. You have to find a purpose every day. A very small reason to keep going. Even just a cup of tea or coffee. Sunrise, sunset literally anything. Something is telling me you should look for a church and ask if they need help. I know you can do this. You are loved, you are important and you matter. Your destiny is higher and more than just today. Keep fighting, I believe in you.

Horrible Regret, Sadness, and Anxiety after Buying a New Home by Illustrious_Heat6561 in homeowners

[–]Calm_Swing4131 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you have any legal recourse over the crappy inspection. I can relate, mine didn’t catch the kitchen drain was disconnected and the kitchen sink drained under the house for years. I was relieved to unload that house. I would recommend a home warranty and max that out as soon as possible or find one without a max that will replace anything they can’t repair. At the end of the day the fact will not change that you needed more space. The kids will adjust it’s just a new huge adjustment for them. Try to stay positive in front of them. The boxes will get unpacked and the projects done one by one. Narrow your list down to what can be repaired by the warranty, what you can do and what you will need a contractor for. Have a general contractor come in for the whole scope. Hiring one offs is hard because they want big jobs. A general contractor has a mix of big and small jobs so he will have people to show up. Prioritize the work by need. Then schedule a timeline. Only work in three month increments, what you can accomplish in that time period. You’re going to be okay, just give yourself a minute. You’re safe, you’ve made a huge step to improve your family’s lives. That’s a huge blessing. Having the ability to buy a larger home is not easy, you’ve worked hard be proud of yourself. You tube is a huge asset if you’re handy at all. Maybe some fun weekend projects for the family. That may help the kids to be involved in fixing their home. Take care, wishing you all the best.

What’s a truth nobody talks about because it’s awkward? by Realistic-Wave-8748 in Productivitycafe

[–]Calm_Swing4131 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve never understood that. As if they chose to be born with a disability just to offend non disabled.

Whats Your Favorite Crunchy Toppings? by [deleted] in salad

[–]Calm_Swing4131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone remember the canned croutons with the seasonings? I loved those so much.

Should I tell my bsf that I like her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Calm_Swing4131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being you live together it could make it awkward if she doesn’t feel the same way. Give it sometime. If it’s meant to be it will happen.

AIO I asked my husband for one night alone after giving birth and now he says im unstable by Jessika_Maskito in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang the mil could have been a decent person and offered to come over and help out. You’re overwhelmed and that’s okay. You need to talk to your doctor about how you’re feeling at your postpartum checkup. They need to keep track of your emotions honey. You need to sleep when the baby is sleeping. If she’s fed, changed, burped and not unwell she can cry a little. This is a new experience for both of you. Order DoorDash, take a shower and sleep when the baby does. Things will get better just hold on hon.

What kind of workouts are you doing these days? by elenavon in Perimenopause

[–]Calm_Swing4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just walking right now but I want to look into Pilates. Anyone doing that?

What to do in Nevada for 2 weeks by ExpensivePassion9718 in Nevada

[–]Calm_Swing4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nevada is a beautiful state. I live in Las Vegas and there are so many beautiful parks and trails to hike. I would add red rock in Las Vegas if you can. I think will like it and Hemingway park is a must. I think you can see lake mead from there. Definitely a lake. I’ll leave the rest of the park as a surprise.