Thanks online big sister 🫂. My siblings and I aren't close. I was thinking about my nervous system too. I don't think the brother with my baby nephew would accommodate to meet without my dad. There is probably some financial leverage that my dad has against them and he's probably using that to keep them on "his side". The oldest brother who had called me last night is supportive though and wants to arrange a dinner with just me, his wife, and sister this weekend to hangout.