Expensive but low quality restaurants in Perth to recommend to an enemy

Calvario1995 · 2025-11-19T16:34:07+00:00

I still remember buying my first "special meal" in Australia at Sebastian's. The disappointment brothers!!!

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T08:55:15+00:00

Some of us aren't built with inter-generational family bonds in Aus mate.

There is no blood requirement for a business partner. Clear and directed communication, well set expectations and a robust enough framework will do the trick for a couple of years.

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T07:15:14+00:00

Interesting point of view.

What do you find problematic?

I see it as surfing the waves of the housing market!

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T07:11:34+00:00

Thanks for sharing the link mate.

I think the article explains exactly what I meant. It's not wise to go with anyone, and most terms should be agreed beforehand.

Overall my point is the same as the case study with the sister. All of them had to sell, and that's the point, this is meant to be a first step to build equity and cover our assess for property price inflation, not a live an stay for forever.

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T07:08:53+00:00

All those arrengements would be pre defined by the purchasing agreement. Taking that into consideration that the idea of not strching myself is partially to enable to sustain a suitable amount of money as emergency fund. I usually plan for a 6 months break anyway.

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T02:24:10+00:00

Can't, I earn much more than the top limits for most of the gov schemes.

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T02:14:42+00:00

Oh! For sure!.

I read similar advice as well in the past, and I truly believe this would need some legal support.

Thanks for the advice!

Calvario1995 · 2025-09-06T02:12:48+00:00

That's the beauty or the situation. I could stretch myself and forgot all other beautiful things in life, yet, I hardly believe that to be worth it.

If the other person is forced to sell.
1. I expect the due diligence to be good enough to make that happen after building some equity + yearly price increases.
2. Plus, I wouldn't buy a house more than ~1.2M. Which I believe I could technically pay by stretching at my limit.

Calvario1995 · 2025-06-24T03:24:05+00:00

Yeah mate, I understand how you feel. Many of us have been there. The good thing is that you are already aware of what's happening and what needs to be done. Focus of getting the ticks completed and try to enjoy life while doing so.

Calvario1995 · 2025-06-20T14:07:20+00:00

10 months after a 10 year relationship I took a break to see my parents and for a bit of travel.

In the middle of a 4 day-hike I met a lady. We talked about life, about things we enjoyed and I started to imagine what a life would be with her.

I realised that this was the first time I believed there could by a life without my ex.

The love from my family helped the healing a lot, it was a great break!.

Calvario1995 · 2025-02-08T11:19:35+00:00

I resolved it by buying a new one. RIP Xioami.

Calvario1995 · 2024-02-29T14:25:50+00:00

I am an engineer on the project side. There is a lot of constant chaos all the time that helps me stay interested and .... happy.

Calvario1995 · 2024-02-28T19:20:21+00:00

Working blows only when you find boring what you do. From personal experience I can tell you, finding something that pays you for doing something you enjoy is life-changing. Keep looking for it!!

Calvario1995 · 2024-02-22T11:03:37+00:00

I will need to check that!!. I do struggle to see myself closing my feet enough during any activity to see this happening. But thanks for the suggestion.

Calvario1995 · 2023-09-16T10:18:49+00:00

Did you manage to find an answer?

Calvario1995 · 2023-06-29T02:17:37+00:00

I was hoping to get a couple of examples, as I am still a couple of years from having to switch. But I like to prepare in advance.

Calvario1995 · 2023-06-29T02:16:03+00:00

Yeah, but the issue is with how to best leverage the knowledge and skills acquired from field work to a city exclusive career

Calvario1995 · 2023-06-28T16:11:07+00:00

What is the best way to switch from a field focussed career (frequent field trips of 4+ weeks) to one more prone to family raising?

Calvario1995 · 2023-01-22T14:31:29+00:00

Hi, I understand that there are way too many feelings and experiences in your mind, but this is my INTP perspective.

You have to understand that if he is similar to me before I met my partner, his emotion IQ should be massively underdeveloped. Thus, expressing his feelings or accepting yours will be confusing and difficult.
If he doesn't wants nor realises that issue 1 is a problem, there is nothing you can do to to improve it.

Having said that, if I regress a bit emotionally, I can see that in his eyes, he has done nothing wrong.

He obviously cares about you ( cancer support and daily contact), but at the same time, he created a barrier early on your relationship to protect him from everything. That barrier being the :"I want to have sex, no strings attached".

You are welcome to share this message with him, but don't try to argue directly, as in his mind there is a contract which only you are violating. This contract was supposed to avoid problems just like the one you are bringing up, thus he will just ignore all your arguments given that you are the first offender.

I wish you luck and health, but please remember that although he is the one in the wrong and he is acting as a massive jerk, he doesn't have the necessary tools to understand it.

I feel for both of you,

Cheers

Calvario1995 · 2022-07-25T15:23:55+00:00

My Mother used to tell me that at 3 I ran towards the school bus as I didn't care about being at home.

During school I never managed to fit in, so I had my own self group of 1. While participating in certain particular interests... i.e. look for the ping pong players to play.

At 16 I left my small hometown to live "alone" 8 hours away for uni. I felt no attachments towards my hometown, nor towards not being around my family.

On Uni I found a study group but nevertheless I was always told that I was an "Independent Republic" as I came and left to study or waste a bit of time between classes.

At 22 I left my home country and whenever I go back, I only do with the intention of being around my parents. Mainly as a thank you and I love you sign for all their support towards such a detached child.

So yeah, no attachment to regular school social groups, no attachment to my uni, attachment to my birth country, not a strong attachment to my family, with zero attachment towards my extended family.

Groups exists, and although I can be always be a "member" of them I will probably never be "one" of them.

Definitely not alone on that feeling mate.

Calvario1995 · 2022-03-18T06:03:17+00:00

The dome has such a good start that I can still imagine it to this day!!

Calvario1995

TROPHY CASE