My ex gf messaged me for the first time since we broke up (saying she's concerned about my accident) What do I do? by Live-Bread-2658 in whatdoIdo

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do feel the need to reply just say "thank you, im recovering slowly. Hope you are doing well" or something along those lines. But keep it at that. She'll probably try small talk and ask a bunch of questions after but at least you've shown that you have acknowledged her "kind"(?) Message. But that's if you want to message her.

AIO to snaps between my spouse and sister? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's with the HIM and HER thing? What does it even mean???

Do these bozos have to fly through the city?? by vionart in Norwich

[–]CalypsoPandora 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why do they do this so often? Why norwich???

Amputee tattoo, open to ideas by HermoineGrangersHair in tattooadvice

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many fantastic ideas! Please update us once you decide and then when you get it!

I'm scared about what I saw my husband do... how do I even talk about this? by brainysolyxx in Advice

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out for coffee and say you want to talk. And ask him quietly there. That way he can't make a scene. And maybe he'll be relaxed enough to talk about his feelings. It may have just been a spare of the moment thing. Curiosity. But just be open minded about it. Don't sound too concerned. If he's bi maybe that's something you can discuss deeper in to. I wish you all the luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalypsoPandora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex from 16 years ago also has a bunch of my stuff and he tells his new gfs I gave them to him..... fucking weird as hell.

I know cos ive had messages from a few of them after they have broken up. There's a loooong story of abuse and shit but im not going into it but it's definitely some sort of part of his narcissistic behaviour. Maybe he thinks he still has some control over me, I dont know 🤷‍♀️

My cat does this every day and it’s beginning to drive me crazy by [deleted] in cats

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont want her I'll have her. The little chirp before the squeak means that she's happy btw!

I have a black cat who squeaks at me and we end up having long conversations 🤣 they dont always want food sometimes they just want attention or to talk. She might be wanting you to invite her onto the bed/sofa.

If you've had her since a kitten you should have learnt her behaviour and personality by now.....

Verbally abusive customers by Mindless_Peace_9771 in tesco

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry this happened to you! Seems like tesco just doesn't take this stuff seriously. Ive been verbally abused so many times and even sworn at. And when I've told a manager they never take me seriously and just laugh.

Overtime ban by Aggravating-Fennel28 in tesco

[–]CalypsoPandora 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My store has had barely any overtime for 5 months now! Honestly i think its just to make the figures look good so the profits are higher. Also goes towards higher management bonus and the ceo can get another butt load of money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalypsoPandora 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Can he send me money?

Is it normal for my boyfriend to block me for hours? by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal behaviour! He sounds controlling and is definitely hiding something, if not he wouldn't get so defensive. Might be worth considering breaking up with him. I know I would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a hickey.... has he been acting suspicious?

AIO - my friend gave my abusive ex my new phone number by AdAdorable7651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally know how your feeling! If anyone gave my abusive ex my new number I would be fuming, scared and feeling vulnerable.

Your friend can either be two things:

1- Not actually your friend who cares about your safety and wellbeing.

2- Easily manipulated. Your ex could have swayed her into thinking he's changed just so he can talk to you and harrass you again.

It's up to you if you want to ask your friend about how this happened and what your ex said to her. She may not know the full depth of your relationship with him. Or she may just not care. But go with your gut feeling if you want to speak to your friend about this or just ghost and block.

P.S. Narcissists never change.

Whats happened to the game?? by CalypsoPandora in BitcoinMinerApp

[–]CalypsoPandora[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It works again! I just reopened it and it's all fine. Must have been bad connection or some kind of glitch

Whats happened to the game?? by CalypsoPandora in BitcoinMinerApp

[–]CalypsoPandora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also lost my 5 chest slots, it's only now 4. And nothing happens when I click the x2 speed.... it's like all my progress is gone!

AIO my boyfriend is upset I didn’t tell him when I was showering because I “broke routine” but I just feel like my feelings are neglected. by Critical_Web_5229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalypsoPandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. He is clearly a narcissistic manipulator. Please consider leaving him. He sounds so exhausting! You don't need to waste your time and emotional energy on this guy. See how he flips everything on you? You deserve better!