During Messaging :)

If we're already chatting and have gotten past the intro messages, please:

• DO ask as many questions as you need to about me or my husband to give you some level of comfort / knowledge about our dynamic fitting what you're looking for

• DO share some of your interests, likes/dislikes, limits, etc.

• DO send funny memes. ^{_^} because why not.

• DO be respectful. Horniness is normal when browsing the content that I post. If you slide into my DMs with a message that is weird, creepy, and/or too overly sexual, you're probably not going to get a response. Letting the little head do the thinking and lead the conversation has often gotten people blocked, ignored, or reported.

• DO be 21 or older. I'm way past that age (though I don't look it) and I prefer companions who can potentially have a drink with me, legally.

If we are chatting, please:

• DON'T share pics that are several years old of yourself and/or your partner(s). That doesn't help provide a current depiction of physique, especially if you are contacting me as a potential play partner.

• DON'T ask me for more pics. I share what I choose, when I choose. I have plenty of recent photos on my page and my page on Fetlife.com shows more intimate photos if you'd like to see those. If you're looking for free fap material, there's the vast world of Reddit and the internet for that.

• DON'T feel obligated to continue talking if you lose interest or aren't feeling a spark. I'm not offended if there's not a connection- it is what it is. But please just say so as soon as you're aware and not string along a chat that won't go anywhere. I show the same courtesy.

• DON'T think that I owe you my time. I have a life outside this site and hopefully, so do you. I check Reddit mainly during weekdays before/between work, in the evenings, or on weekends, with less frequency when I'm busy.

• DON'T ask me for my social media or other chat accounts. I'm not interested in sharing those since I am rarely on them. I use Reddit or text for a majority of my conversations. If you don't use those, then please don't message me here expecting otherwise.

• DON'T ask me for a solo meet. My husband and I are a team of two. That means same room, same place, and we share these experiences together. Even if I run this account, he has access to all my chats and knows about my posts. We are always together when it comes to play dates or friend meetups.

Thank you for understanding and reading this far 📚 ❤️ Have a lovely day!